the pressure of uni

Hi,

Change can be scary and it's easy to panic and do what you think you should be doing or what people expect you to do for the sake of moving forward. Honestly, it doesn't sound like you're sure about doing event management or that you'll be happy at uni at this point for a number of reasons. I wouldn't got to uni this year if I were you. Spend some time getting work experience to work out what you enjoy and are good at. Then think about what you want to do and what you need to get there.

Re: your boyfriend, do you currently live together and what does he do now? Has he worked out what he'd like to do with his life? Just being together isn't going to keep you both happy. Everyone needs something else going on in their lives apart from their other half and your boyfriend not being happy studying something random or working in a random job is definitely going to put a strain on your relationship. Once you've both worked out what you want to do and how to get there look for courses/jobs together. It'll still be hard and compromises may need to be made but at least you'll be making informed decisions rather than panicked ill thought out ones.

yes we live together we have been for about 2 years and he does maintenance and tours, he enjoys where he works because of the people but not the job its self, i don't know what work experience i am mean't to be doing as i really don't know what i want to do, i took a gap year last year to travel and it still didn't help my decision in the slightest

Can you not enrol at a local uni instead?

As I said before think about what you enjoy doing and what you're good at and get experience in those areas.