If you have a good grasp of physics and mechanics in general, you certainly can, however, most of M3 is built upon ideas you have learnt in M2, so it would be much easier and smoother to go through M2 first then M3. Do as I did, even if your school teaches M2, still self teach M2 then do M3. M3 is considerably harder than M2, M2 is a walk in the park to be frank, while M3 has some formidable questions by A-Level standards.
As for resources, there is a torrent somewhere around the vast world of the internet that contains all the edexcel books for maths, find it and you will have saved yourself a lot of money.