Wife also attracted to women...

Your wife likes chicks dude, many people would be doing back flips if they said that.

she tells me its no big deal =/

Lol. Well,obviously a teenage boy will tell you that this is great.

IMO, it is only going to be a matter of time before she finds a woman that she really fancies.

=/really?

I am about to break up with her, but i'm human and emotions are overcoming me, i had a conversation with her about her sexuality and she said this - i need your view of how YOU would react to hearing the below:

1. I asked her if she was lesbian - she said she was definitely Bi. She said she likes me, and when i pressed her she admitted to finding a female celebrity she always obsesses over and has filled her instagram with. She admitted she was MUCH more SEXUALLY attracted to her than to me, and that she is far more good looking than me, and if she were in a relationship with her - Which she swore would never happen, as she is religious, so just ASSUME this- she may have been far more open to sexual/physical intimacy.

I feel so humuliated... and she said i am making a big deal out of nothing...but i feel so humuliated she always looks at that woman, oggles over her, and that i will never be able to give her what that woman gave her...

How would you react? =/

would you tolerate marrying someone far more attracted to a female celebrity than you ? =/ even if she never acted it out

You could have what every man dreams --> Menage a trio.

If she does, at least record it.

I am about to break up with her, but i'm human and emotions are overcoming me, i had a conversation with her about her sexuality and she said this - i need your view of how YOU would react to hearing the below:

1. I asked her if she was lesbian - she said she was definitely Bi. She said she likes me, and when i pressed her she admitted to finding a female celebrity she always obsesses over and has filled her instagram with. She admitted she was MUCH more SEXUALLY attracted to her than to me, and that she is far more good looking than me, and if she were in a relationship with her - Which she swore would never happen, as she is religious, so just ASSUME this- she may have been far more open to sexual/physical intimacy.

I feel so humuliated... and she said i am making a big deal out of nothing...but i feel so humuliated she always looks at that woman, oggles over her, and that i will never be able to give her what that woman gave her...

How would you react? =/

would you tolerate marrying someone far more attracted to a female celebrity than you ? =/ even if she never acted it out

Wife also attracted to women

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Ah I see what you're getting at.
Tbh if she's refusing to be intimate with you and then reveals she also likes women, you have three possible scenarios:

1. She IS bisexual but is more attracted to women than to men
2. She is homosexual but is afraid to tell you, due to the fact that you're married and not to mention the religious issues surrounding it
3. She is either of the above, plus asexual, so she is romantically attracted to women and/or men but doesn't want sex


It's so sad that she's been born into a Muslim community who will shun her for being truthful about who she is.

Ah I see what you're getting at.
Tbh if she's refusing to be intimate with you and then reveals she also likes women, you have three possible scenarios:

1. She IS bisexual but is more attracted to women than to men
2. She is homosexual but is afraid to tell you, due to the fact that you're married and not to mention the religious issues surrounding it
3. She is either of the above, plus asexual, so she is romantically attracted to women and/or men but doesn't want sex


It's so sad that she's been born into a Muslim community who will shun her for being truthful about who she is.