Guys, would you have sex with a girl on her period during Freshers?

Reply 40

The Sexathlete

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Only if we can do vampire roleplay

Reply 41

Profesh

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Original post by Pinkberry_y

I'm not a guy but can I just say something. Too many people go to uni with the idea that freshers is some sex filled orgie environment where everybody gets laid everyday, multiple times a day.

It's not

You're right: someone has to hold the towels.

Reply 42

TorpidPhil

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Original post by rxns_00

It can move the period if she takes it before her period starts

So essentially, if you're still having ~week long periods regularly you're just not taking the pill properly (assuming you dislike the periods)?

Reply 43

inhuman

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Original post by TorpidPhil

**** condoms.

Are you one of the people that happily takes antibiotics?
Shame on you.

Reply 44

Profesh

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Original post by TorpidPhil

**** condoms.

Well, someone can certainly expect to forgo the lion's share of frenzied, spontaneous, heat-of-the-moment first-date sex with that attitude.

Reply 45

therevsd2

You could use the patch?

Reply 46

TorpidPhil

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Original post by Profesh

Well, someone can certainly expect to forgo the lion's share of frenzied, spontaneous, heat-of-the-moment first-date sex with that attitude.

Original post by inhuman

Are you one of the people that happily takes antibiotics?
Shame on you.

No, I'm not.

I can't use condoms because of my dick. It's abnormal.

I have wrote many times before though how much I hate that there is no male pill so all the hormonal, interceptive, burden is on the women.

And indeed Profesh, spontaneous sex doesn't work for me. A shame in one way, but not a big loss really. Makes the actual sex a lot better and I can last really long with my weird penis so it's awesome :biggrin:

Reply 47

Twinpeaks

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Original post by TorpidPhil

**** condoms.

Well there's different types of pills though... Ngl, I don't really understand it. Girls tend to not enjoy sharing this information.

When you go to the doctor for the first time and discuss contraceptions and basically start on the pill what sort of pill do they typically give you? Is that typically the combined 21 day then rest week pill? Note I'm asking for the average here, not what happened to you - I'm assuming you've discussed this with other women more than I have and perhaps know more about the different types of pills than I.

Also having spoke to my last gf and my mother about pills, their pills never stopped their periods... What pill were they on if you're saying most pills eventually do stop your period...?

The combined 21 day pill is definitely the most common. That stops your period because it stops ovulation, so you don't release any eggs. When you stop taking it you have a sort of period, but it's not the same.

I think the pill your girlfriend must have taken was the progesterone only pill, which doesn't always stop ovulation depending on the type. I'm not sure sure about that form of pill though, I only know one girl who took it and it didn't suit her at all.

Reply 48

Fred5134

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Original post by TorpidPhil

I can't use condoms because of my dick. It's abnormal.

Useless your dick has sharp prongs on it then a condom should work for you.

(edited 7 years ago)

Reply 49

TorpidPhil

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Original post by Fred5134

Useless your dick has sharp prongs on it then a condom should work for you.

Or very little sensitivity.

Reply 50

Twinpeaks

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Original post by anonwinner

Did you really just use the term "mansplain" unironically? Ugh, you're disgusting.

I was not being serious, no.

But the fact that you find the use of the term mansplaining to be disgusting suggests you must lead a very small and sheltered life. Of all the things out there that are disgusting, the term "mansplain" is pretty low on the list...

Reply 51

TorpidPhil

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Original post by Twinpeaks

The combined 21 day pill is definitely the most common. That stops your period because it stops ovulation, so you don't release any eggs. When you stop taking it you have a sort of period, but it's not the same.

I think the pill your girlfriend must have taken was the progesterone only pill, which doesn't always stop ovulation depending on the type. I'm not sure sure about that form of pill though, I only know one girl who took it and it didn't suit her at all.

I see...

Why would a doctor put you on that though rather than the combined pill? Especially when you find periods annoying...

Reply 52

newsunflower

OP

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Original post by TorpidPhil

No, I'm not.

I can't use condoms because of my dick. It's abnormal.

I have wrote many times before though how much I hate that there is no male pill so all the hormonal, interceptive, burden is on the women.

And indeed Profesh, spontaneous sex doesn't work for me. A shame in one way, but not a big loss really. Makes the actual sex a lot better and I can last really long with my weird penis so it's awesome :biggrin:

How is your dick abnormal? I would never have sex with someone unless they were wearing a condom. Sensitivity issues are ********. Crap excuse.

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Reply 53

TorpidPhil

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Original post by newsunflower

How is your dick abnormal? I would never have sex with someone unless they were wearing a condom. Sensitivity issues are ********. Crap excuse.

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Well you'd never be having sex with me then, bravo.

It's not ideal, it's why I don't do casual sex, well, that and emotional issues hehe.

But really, I tried sooooo hard. Legit tried 20 different condoms. I cannot feel anything at all with them on (and thus go soft rather quickly as there's nothing sexy really about humping the air or having a girl sit on your belly and bounce upon and down on it which really is all it feels like). I barely feel much when having sex and I cannot ejaculate with my hand alone in masturbation unless I haven't came in at least a week (even then I nearly always need porn, or some external stimulus and it takes roughly an hour). It's a real thing. I think the damage is done now though. I tried a period of way less masturbation for 3months and it just didn't make a difference and drove me mad. Oh and I should say I've never ejaculated to a handjob or blowjob before either (which includes a time wherein I was so horny my body started spasming uncontrollably).

So no, I won't be having condom sex anytime soon.

Also, because of the no condom thing I never pressure a partner into sex. I'm a firm believer that you will have a better sexual relationship if you force yourself to have non-penetrative sex 3 or 4 times before you actually do that anyway. Just makes you appreciate the smaller things like dry humping even more :P

(edited 7 years ago)

lol this thread. What uni are you off to, OP?

Reply 55

Josb

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Original post by newsunflower

Probably cry and continue hating the whole world as I do now.

You know that freshers week is not the only time in the year where you can have sex, right?

Facepalm...

I need to meet more girls like OP.

Reply 58

Twinpeaks

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Original post by TorpidPhil

I see...

Why would a doctor put you on that though rather than the combined pill? Especially when you find periods annoying...

I think sometimes the combined pill just doesn't really work some girls. A friend of mine had spotting whilst taking it, and another girl found it made her dry down there (tmi?). For some girls it's a case of trying out different ones to see what suits. Or another girl I know found that after a few years on the combined pill, the break weeks would give her severe headaches, almost a withdrawal reaction.