Black men....

As a guy seeing black guys dating girls of all types and most girls these days having a preference for black men i want to know what black men do differently which makes them more succesful with women in comparison with men of other races ???? P.s do not say ******** like they have big packages.

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Reply 1

Dnkz7

From my experience as a black male, confidence is key. As long as you can make them laugh and make them feel comfortable in your presence then you'll get the girls attention, 100%.

Reply 2

richpanda

Media glorifies dating black men /thread

Reply 3

Anonymous #1

To be honest, there is no evidence to suggest black men are the most desired.

According to OKCupid and Date Hookup, black men are actually the least desired ethnicity with the exception of Asian men.

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Generally, however, being confident, having financial stability and a good personality is all it takes to find a relationship.

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sund1ata

Original post by Anonymous

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Generally, however, being confident, having financial stability and a good personality is all it takes to find a relationship.

That's online, genius. There's no correlation to the real world. Women of all races understand what Black men "have to offer", if you know what I mean.

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Anonymous #1

Original post by sund1ata

That's online, genius. There's no correlation to the real world. Women of all races understand what Black men "have to offer", if you know what I mean.

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How is online dating not in correlation to the real world? Are the people who use online dating sites not real?

If you really believe that women are only going with black men because of the size of their dick, that's not only outright misogynist, but incredibly offensive to black men who should rightfully believe women are with them because of their personality.

Even so, countless studies have been done which have shown black men to be the least desired group among women, whether that be online or via academic studies.

http://www.rooshv.com/totem-pole-of-race-attractiveness
https://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/your-race-affects-whether-people-write-you-back/
https://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/race-attraction-2009-2014/
http://www.npr.org/sections/codeswitch/2013/11/30/247530095/are-you-interested-dating-odds-favor-white-men-asian-women
http://en.metapedia.org/wiki/Race_and_physical_attractiveness
http://faculty.chicagobooth.edu/emir.kamenica/documents/racialpreferences.pdf

Black men in India are openly discriminated against because of the caste system. Black men in China are openly discriminated against because of its association with manual labour. Black men in the far-east are openly discriminated against because of beauty standards.

Anyway, stop being a loser over the internet who thinks blacks' dick size is enough to get them laid. It's embarrassing.

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Generally, however, being confident, having financial stability and a good personality is all it takes to find a relationship.

This. I'm not sure who thinks black men are the most successful.

Reply 8

ANM775

Original post by Stinglikeabee

If you're talking about white girls, then yes black guys are more successful in general than Asian/Indians/middle easterns,

but Hispanic men and white men do significantly better with white girls.

If you're talking about Asian girls [of the oriental variety] then literally every other race tends to do better than black men.

If you're talking about Indian/pakistani type girls then white men do better, and middle eastern men do better so long as he isn't a "freshie". Black men probably do better than Asian Oriential men in this category also. Ofcource Indian and pakistani men do the best with their own women.

Black men "appear" to do better because you live in a country where white is the largest racial group ...and blacks do better with whites than a few other non white races.

The OkCupid study is right though, for some reason online blacks are the least desired.

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Reply 9

DanB1991

Original post by Anonymous

How is online dating not in correlation to the real world? Are the people who use online dating sites not real?

Because online dating for women generally boils down to, they look hot/rich/successful, they'll try and date them.

Virtually all studies into online dating shows that your profile pictures are the single most important thing. By comparison in real life, being confident, funny, charming etc is often displayed during your first meeting, by comparison online your first 'opener' per se is your profile picture and look.

Black people, especially guys, tend to have a big of a negative rep until girls actually get to meet them. Call it racism or whatever, but it's similar reasons why bald guys, short guys etc etc can struggle with online dating.

Reply 10

Roperjacob

Original post by Stinglikeabee

not all the way true just depends on your personality, jokes, energy, and how comfortable you make the female around youuu

Reply 11

Dnkz7

So many butthurt people, just because we are known for having a bigger package than most people, you'll still get offended?
Trust me - if girls want to be with us because of our ''big packages'' then that makes the incentive even greater, just be confident and you can bag your girl.

Reply 12

RagingWhoreMoans

It's nowhere near as common as the media makes out, according to data from OKCupid etc, the most well liked men are White and the most well liked women are Asian.

Reply 13

999tigger

Perhaps its just more noticeable.

Reply 14

lawyer3c

Original post by Anonymous

Even so, countless studies have been done which have shown black men to be the least desired group among women, whether that be online or via academic studies.

Black men in India are openly discriminated against because of the caste system. Black men in China are openly discriminated against because of its association with manual labour. Black men in the far-east are openly discriminated against because of beauty standards.

But in England black men do very well with White women, which is rather more relevant.

Reply 15

Pinkberry_y

Assertive, confident, knows what he wants and is out to get it, rough in bed- just how us ladies like it

Reply 16

Dnkz7

Original post by Pinkberry_y

Assertive, confident, knows what he wants and is out to get it, rough in bed- just how us ladies like it

You sound right up my street...

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Reply 17

ANM775

Original post by DanB1991

Black people, especially guys, tend to have a big of a negative rep until girls actually get to meet them. Call it racism or whatever, but it's similar reasons why bald guys, short guys etc etc can struggle with online dating.

I'm Black myself,
Girls sometimes think if you're Black you're some sort of player too. Sometimes [but not often] i might get random Indian/Pakistani girls checking me out. But They ALWAYS have wary looks on faces whilst doing it. They seem very untrusting.

I am also finding Fat girls with Fat Asses will often just randomly Assume you want them if you glance in their general direction and start giving you the stink eye.

I notice that whilst it is not uncommon to see a black guy with a pretty girl of another race ....it is pretty uncommon for a black guy to go into a club and get a makeout or something from a pretty girl of another race. This suggests girls are not all that eager to engage random black men on a romantic level. I notice myself that girls are much more open if you have friends in common and are not some randomer.

Girls will often randomly assume you must be some sort of Pro dancer too in clubs because you are black. I've been put on the spot numerous times. Luckily I'm not a bad dancer, but one should just not assume that because I'm black I know how 2 "get jiggy with it"

If I'm asking directions in the street it is not all that uncommon either for the girl to initially tense up and try ignore me ...because she assume's I'm about to hit to on her.

It ain't easy being Black.

Luckily the area I live in ...I don't tend to get sterotyped as badly as when I was in London.

Reply 18

loveleest

Speaking as a black female, I know I am generalising a bit but it may be because of sterotypes like you know, dick size (sorry, well not really) which is shallow. Or maybe because dark skin is the optimum of masculinity.

But I do believe that most people do tend to be more attracted or graviate towards their own race, but then again you have others that specifically date out/certain race due to fetishism.