A single mum keeps hinting we go out for a drink

Nope, I'm not a single mother but I can understand as my own sister is a single mum who is divorced and always gets judged by society just because she's been divorced. She hasn't moved on after her divorce.. hope that explains why I understand.

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Nothing is wrong with a potential partner being a single mum. However you do have the establish boundaries fairly early on. For example making sure you're not involved in the kids life too early when the relationship isn't extremely serious. It's not so much for either of your sakes, more the kids.

I know too many girls, who while being lovely girls, get their new BF's too involved with the kids too early. Must be hella confusing for the child.

Nothing is wrong with a potential partner being a single mum. However you do have the establish boundaries fairly early on. For example making sure you're not involved in the kids life too early when the relationship isn't extremely serious. It's not so much for either of your sakes, more the kids.

I know too many girls, who while being lovely girls, get their new BF's too involved with the kids too early. Must be hella confusing for the child.

Exactly I dont personally know any girls like that but I have so many mates who wind up playing step dad for a random bird's egg when he just wanted to shag. She would be desperate like the real dad did a legger so now her hunting skills go way up for the sole purpose of emotional security for herself. That is not healthy at all.

So do you think I should stay well away?

Is her having a child a problem for you? If so, stay away

It'll only hurt her

If I did agree to go for a drink with her this is definitely something I'd have to clarify with her. I'm not looking for a relationship id just want to take things slowly.

Shes hinting you go for a drink and not to become the kids father.

Kids aren't baggage, if you think that then say no as she can do better.
If you can overcome it, then just see how things go, you don't have to spend the rest of your life with her

Kids aren't baggage, if you think that then say no as she can do better.
If you can overcome it, then just see how things go, you don't have to spend the rest of your life with her

A girl who I used to go to school with added me on Facebook a few weeks ago, we never really spoke when we where at high school but I accepted her friend request anyway. From talking to her I found out that she's a single mum (the kid is only 3 months old). She's hinting that me and her go out for a drink, I don't really know her that well and I think the fact that she's a single mum is putting me off a bit. But then again I haven't had much luck with women lately and I'm contemplating whether I should go for a drink with her. What do you think I should do?

I acc know someone that is in a similar situation, the only difference is that the girl has two babies. Both with different fathers. So this girl shes really pretty used to go to my church then she left and now after 4 years she decided to start talking with this guy i know. And clearly shes looking for a father for her children. But he still went along with it they are together at the moment and most people are agaisnt their relationship because she's clearly looking for something from him its not like she acc likes him. He also accepted quickly because he was desperate.

I think that you could meet her but i think her intentions are very clear because it is not normal that someone that just had a baby is looking for a partner already so quickly. I dont know but this doesnt sound good at all. But go for a drink and see what happens.