mum embarrasses me at any opportunity she can get

I'm so angry omfg

My mum can't help herself talking down on me and telling everyone my faults all the time. She makes me feel so **** in front of people.

It's my graduation on Monday and yesterday I realised that I bought the wrong size dress. I quickly tried it on last week in the changing rooms but had to rush. I got mixed up with the sizes because it had the US size written next to the UK one, I was looking at US size when choosing in the store, then at home realised it's too big.

Anyway, I told her about it this morning as luckily I will be getting sunday delivery for the right size. So today when my brother and sister in law came over, they asked me about graduation and my dress, I was gritting my teeth for my mum not to embarrass me and what does she do? Tells them about it and makes me look like a ****ing fool.

Like seriously what is the need to even tell anyone about that? Just another attempt at getting people to look down on me.

This is just one example of how she does this type of thing ALL the time. What is so hard about keeping your mouth shut? Why MUST they know this?

Then she gets angry when I'm angry about her for this. She cannot comprehend that it is embarrassing for me and totally unnecessary. I had to leave the room because she upsets me so much and never gets it.

Everybody else's parents here big their children up and speak highly of them but ahe makes me look like a ****ing joke lmao. Rant over. :h:

It was just banter

You sound incredibly sensitive. Perhaps try getting a grip.*

Reply 3

ForestShadow

Original post by SuperHuman98

It was just banter

Reply 4

Pinkberry_y

At least she's not smacking your face everytime you do something wrong

Reply 5

Dom2375

Original post by Pinkberry_y

At least she's not smacking your face everytime you do something wrong

Emotional/Verbal abuse can be just as bad, and worse than physical abuse.

Reply 6

sh9

Original post by josh_v

You sound incredibly sensitive. Perhaps try getting a grip.*

Thanks you cured me!

Reply 7

josh_v

Original post by sh9

Thanks you cured me!

Completely welcome. If you have any more issues, feel free to bring them to me for more similar advice and assistance.*

Reply 8

username2246259

Give her a swift kick in the balls next time

Reply 9

Allie4

whats wrong with everyone, even BANTER can be cruel at times. try being a little more sympathetic

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Reply 10

sh9

Original post by Allie4

whats wrong with everyone, even BANTER can't be cruel at times. try being a little more sympathetic

Lol people on here act like they're a breed of apathetic genetic elite with no feelings or emotions. It's almost like they look for sad rants just to post "get a grip" like it's going to make a difference to anything. :s-smilie:

I wouldn't have even made this thread if it wasn't for the build up of constant digs and malicious intent. It's like being bullied by your own family.

Reply 11

username2246259

Original post by sh9

I wouldn't have even made this thread if it wasn't for the build up of constant digs and malicious intent. It's like being bullied by your own family.

It is being bullied by your own family. Explain to her why you don't want her to continue bullying you. If that doesn't work, then your mother is borderline abusive.

Reply 12

Imam of Haram

She has nothing on my mum, you're being a pussy.

Reply 13

sh9

Original post by Imam of Haram

She has nothing on my mum, you're being a pussy.

When people feel like ****, why do you turn it into a thing about yourself? Your friends must love confiding in someone as self absorbed as you. :h:

Reply 14

Imam of Haram

Original post by sh9

When people feel like ****, why do you turn it into a thing about yourself? Your friends must love confiding in someone as self absorbed as you. :h:

I don't have any friends and unless you've known them for years and your parents knew their parents, neither do you, they're distant acquaintances and nothing more.