Confused by her actions. What's her deal?

So the girl i was seeing ended things with me a few weeks ago. She apologized a week later for overreacting. I responded back but then she went days without saying anything. After 4 days she asked to see me but I just was still pissed about the whole to be honest so I wasn't receptive. Anyways she and I haven't talked in weeks. Based on her snaps she seems just fine.

On Tuesday I get text from her saying hey headed home (she lives a few hours away) I left some stuff for you by the front door. I told my roommate to go outside and check and to bring it in. I replied back ok thanks. A few minutes later I sent her another text saying that my roommate just told me and that I was in LA (her city). All she said back was no problem...okay cool.

I get back to my town today and in the bag she has a note that says hope all is well. It's been a while. Ran into your roommate this weekend and heard that you're moving soon. I was just concerned so I go you a few pick me ups. Could be wrong and if I am just take it as a housewarming and pay it forward.

What the heck?

Reply 1

TruthBeTold'

She want's Mr.Alpha back.

You are Mr.Alpha.

She wants you back.

Reply 2

dannmann92

[QUOTE="TruthBeTold';67603726"]She want's Mr.Alpha back.

You are Mr.Alpha.

She wants you back.[/QUOTE

Then why didn't she say anything when
I told her I was in her city?

Reply 3

TruthBeTold'

[QUOTE="dannmann92;67604470"]

Original post by TruthBeTold'

She want's Mr.Alpha back.

You are Mr.Alpha.

She wants you back.[/QUOTE

Then why didn't she say anything when
I told her I was in her city?

You are trying to understand the way a female thinks.

That's dangerous. But on this occasion i'm guessing she didn't want to seem desperate.. or you know...wasn't interested at the immediately time you told her

Reply 4

dannmann92

[QUOTE="TruthBeTold';67604608"]

Original post by dannmann92

Ha true. Just curious. If you dropped off a gift or w/e for her and she said thanks then a few minutes later followed up with my roommate just told me...I'm in *insert your city* would you think she was telling you that to drop a hint to see her?

Reply 5

choleCcarknif3r

I'm not even sure she knows what her deal is. It sounds like she likes you but has no clue what she wants or what she's doing

Reply 6

Ciel.

Original post by dannmann92

She either doesnt like you (physically, or personality wise) and was just being polite, or she's hoping for ' true love at first sight'

Reply 7

PrinceOfOrange

Maybe she's just being a good friend? Not everything has some conspiracy behind it

Reply 8

chikane

When you told her you was in her city she just replied ok cool if she was interested she could have said let's meet up but she didn't. *I think she still cares about you but not in a romantic way or she might feel bad about ending things and got you some stuff to say to show you regardless of what happened she still cares.

Reply 9

dannmann92

Original post by chikane

Thanks. I'll pose the same question to you as the user above.
Just curious. If you dropped off a gift or w/e for a guy and he said thanks then a few minutes later followed up with my roommate just told me...I'm in *insert your city* would you think he was telling you that to drop a hint to see him?

Reply 10

chikane

Original post by dannmann92

If someone said to me they were in same city i would think they were hinting to meet up when a friend is visiting she would say she was in my city and i would say thats great lets meet up or maybe she thought you were simply just saying you were in the same city and she didnt see it as a hint.
Her reply didn't show that she wanted to catch up or she would have said that to you but left you a gift instead.
As she was the one who ended things with you she probably was being polite. Why not ask her to meet you instead?