Someone talk me out of messaging him

I cancelled a date, told him I was busy, told him something had come up and I wasn't looking for anything right now. I did this the day before I was supposed to go on a date with him. He'll think I'm completely crazy if I message him all of a sudden on Instagram (when I've never messaged him before on there) and say actually I've changed my mind

if i were to give him the honest answer how would i word it? again I'm sorry I'm being a complete pain here

He wont actually, but he will know you are confised, weak, and gullible. So he will play you and everything cna go on track like before. Sometimes you have to make your own mistakes. I thought we said cut all contact and you havent becayse that means remobing hum for all social media. Not just blocking but removing.

One imagines he's quite charming, quite pushy, controlling, maybe aggressive iof he doesnt get his own way and clumsily manipulative. He gets to sleep with you, but he's already given you a good indication of how he views women. Its one thing having fanatsies, bit its a bit sad when its on his facebook.

You might enjoy the ride or the ending might be rather draining. Sometimes you have to make your own mistakes though, so give it a whilr if you think you cna have a good time.

This is completely putting me off from messaging him...hes not really pushy controlling or aggressive, he's just...nice, what do you mean indication of how he views women?

This is completely putting me off from messaging him...hes not really pushy controlling or aggressive, he's just...nice, what do you mean indication of how he views women?

Weve been through this before. I and others responded on what you posted before. He might be charming, but I saw enough warnings that would have me on guard about what hes like. You have met him and I havent. If you fancy your chances then go for it, you cmight learn from the experience.

oh no what kind of warnings? i don't want him to use me just to sleep with... but at the same time i want to talk to him again...

Just say it from the heart. Tell him you backed out because your friends persuaded you it was a bad idea but you've thought about it more, and want to give it a go.

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Look. It's bugging you so much you've come on a student forum for answers.

Just message him and see what happens. You can always leave and back out again. But if you do nothing, you have no upside.

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I'm going to do what you asked for

Stop messaging him! It won't last long, you've only spoke to him online. Who knows what his personality is like in real life?

Also, ask yourself why you want to talk to him more. Is it because you like him or is it because you are bored?