Do your folks let you bring your bf/gf in the house? And even sleep over?

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high five yooo

i rebelled real bad too when i was about 13 (cringe)
i can still remember the day when i came back home from school and my mum was like 'we gotta talk'.. i was wearing a choker and since then i've never been able to wear one again lol. i would've been angry with myself too... it's all about how you approach your parents - if u try to do sth behind their back, they're pretty much always gonna get mad, but after the while, they get over it

right now my mum and dad are absolutely amaaaazing tho
like i said, 'partners in crime' is the best way to describe em

my brother has it a lot easier than me tho
now that i m away he's pretty much like an only child, not to mention that i've bought him a lot of **** and he can have almost everything he wants
and he's also a boy so yeah

Through the back door window, which is basically a door in itself. It doesn't make any noise and neither do our stairs. Plus my room is on the floor lower to my parents' room. I've only ever done it twice though.

Just said to reachin4thestars that you gotta show your folks they can trust you. I didn't do that as a kid but that's because I rebelled against restrictions. It's now why my mum has kinda loosened the unnecessary straps on us. Everyone is dying their hair now, staying out, going parties, etc. I think it's good!

looool I won't tell
my house is squeaky as **** though, old victorian flat
My mum said she likes it because she calls it an alarm system, the squeaks and that lol
literally nothing is quiet, the cupboards, the doors, floors...-__-

exactly
they just wanna be part of their kid's life
and the thing is, most of the times, they can actually help you..it's not like they weren't young too at some point
when i have kids i wanna be a badass mum lol.. and teach my kids that it's abs okay to tell me about all the **** they do

Lol I stay thinking about how I'm gonna raise my kids because I'm getting to that age/point of my life where it could happen any minute, that I make a child. I have a lot of practice with my little siblings and what I do with them is let them express themselves freely But they respect me at the same time, they know when to stfu, when to "come here," when to stop...even though they're very happy it seems with like self expression. I didnt have that growing up and I think my mum sees wtf it did to me. So she's not like that anymore. Much more lenient while still parenting.

One big thing was hair dye and dating and parties, honestly. My mum hated it. Now we all do it. And I talk to her about sex and ****. I used to be terrified.

I wasn't allowed a boy in my room with the door closed all the way up to leaving for uni and I wasn't allowed a boy in the house if there wasn't someone else there

once I went to uni my mum was fine with my boyfriend coming to stay and sleeping in my room (although I have a single bed so we had a separate mattress for him anyway), my dad took until I was about 21 to agree to it lol

hmmm...well at least they finally let up. Some peoples parents still control them even into adulthood!? What really inspired this thread is the change I see in my mum when it comes to raising me and my sister, and our younger siblings who are over 10 yrs younger than us. I feel at this point my mum will let my younger siblings do much more than I was allowed at their ages. And I think leniency isn't so bad...as long as you teach em respect and morals and stuff. Because kids ARE gonna rebel 9x outta 10. Might as well just teach em how to stay strong under pressures against like unsafe sex and drugs Cuz they're gonna try them either way.

how old are you lol? and do u really wanna have children?

and yeah, i get what you're saying

the way my parents brought me up was pretty okay i guess ..if it weren't for them i would've probably got into a lot more trouble lol

but i think communication is really important you know? when i was young i was afraid to tell my parents some stuff, and there wasn't really a reason not to do this, but it did affect our relationship at a certain point..

so do i.. right now if i wanna do some crazy **** i actually enjoy calling my parents first and being like 'have any advice lol?'

I'll tell you in pm my age and well my mum and I aren't that close, or me and my dad. It's more of an emotional detachment to each other. The thing is, my mum was very cruel growing up and did a lot to lower my confidence about simple things. So I couldn't even watch a kissing scene in a film next to her without feeling ashamed or talk about sex or even say the word sex. I was afraid what she'd think of me. Now I just dont give a ****. I letit all hang out and share every detail about sexual encounters I've had, I swear, smoke, I do wtf I want in front of her and she's kind of stuck with stopping me so she kinda has no choice but to go along with it and let my younger siblings express themselves as well. Fearing that they'll resent her as well if she doesn't.


One time I was invited to a party TWO DOORS DOWN from our place.

She made me come in after 30 minutes


And then I stayed away from home for a week unannounced lol now she lets me come home at stupid oclock 5am whatever.

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