For the highly confident people of tsr, tell us your ways!

I would say im confident sometimes but wanna reach really high confidence and assuredness where nothing bothers me because im so certain of who I am


P.s. How long did it take you to become so confident and did you fake it till you made it or..?

Fake it til you make it..

Srs, you have no idea how many time I've been physically scared for my life of approaching random people either at my old sales job or on an open day, or in a club, or just in general. Yes, you'll be anxious/nervous/have butterflies everyone does because we're human, but, you have to push those to the side and BELIEVE that you are confident - then you just do it and realise it's not as bad.

Honestly, I'd say 99.99% of people who are too shy to walk to people are just over thinking and letting their brains override everything.

Idk, I worked in phone store sales part time for 2.5 years and that helped A LOT. Because every single day I had to talk to and convince 20+ people to buy stuff.

Posted from TSR Mobile

So how long would it take to become confident if i do things that make me really nervous everytime i go out? Or just practice being a confident person in general daily?

No idea how long, but if you push yourself out of your comfort zone enough and fake the confidence enough times, you'll start to feel like you aren't faking it anymore. That's what happened to me anyway, now everyone's convinced I'm this uber outgoing person (when deep down, I know 60% of it was me just faking it loool) who knows all these people.*

The key is to hate everything to the point of not caring anymore

Good luck

Just don't worry about other people's opinions, simple. Think about how silly it is to worry about what other people are thinking...


now sometimes people are OVER confident, like being 20 stone and wearing purple vest top and leopard print leggings..

Don't talk about stones like that, they're beautiful.

See?