My bf gets mad over things I think aren't a big deal such as...
Me not being there when he wakes up, he hates waking up alone. And instead of expressing that in a calm manner, he snaps yells at me, slams doors. Is that really worth a fight? He sleeps in really late and I get bored! So I go into the living room and hangout with his roommates or just be on my phone.
Or sometimes I fall asleep on the sofa, rather on the bed with him ( sofa is in his room) because I'm feelings sick- my period usually and he gets really mad at that- tells me I should just sleep at home
He gets mad if I leave go home early, mind you it's a Sunday and I had spent the whole weekend at his house, and I get a ride home and I really have no control or say when to get picked up. He yells at me, huffs and puffs and gets so frustrated over it. He wants me to wake up him so we can spend time together but I never end up doing that because my ride calls me last min.
Are these legitimate reasons to get really really mad? He doesn't get normal mad or sad he gets pissed, 0-100 I guess he doesn't know how to express himself any other way. He hollers in my face, when I walked away from him last time because he was telling me not to come over again, just because I left early I got my bags walked out of his room, he dragged me from my coat and shut the door.
I read this and it doesn't seem like a big deal to me, but somehow he convinces me that I'm the *******...I just need someone to confirm to me if its me or him?