Hard to find a Boyfriend!!

So what do you do if you have been the best of friends with your best guy-friend? And you are secretly in love with him but you don't know if he feels the same way... I need a boyfriend i'm not desperate. nor lonely, I just want some body to hold me down n have my back.

Reply 1

*SweaterWeather*

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Original post by Rome'Mya

So what do you do if you have been the best of friends with your best guy-friend? And you are secretly in love with him but you don't know if he feels the same way... I need a boyfriend i'm not desperate. nor lonely, I just want some body to hold me down n have my back.

lol happened to me then he came out as gay

Reply 2

Rome'Mya

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Original post by *SweaterWeather*

lol happened to me then he came out as gay

r u serious??? :s-smilie:

Reply 3

Rome'Mya

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wym help me understand??

Reply 4

*SweaterWeather*

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Original post by Rome'Mya

r u serious??? :s-smilie:

yep xD though it's actually been better with him as a friend than anything else could have been. Like, I wrote about him in my diary about 4 years ago, and a few months ago we read that diary and basically made fun of 'young me' together, and I've helped him with guys and stuff :smile:

Reply 5

Rome'Mya

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awww that was sweet living a life full of funny moments

Reply 6

Elastichedgehog

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Stop trying actively, it'll just happen :h:

Cheesy as that is

Reply 7

It's****ingWOODY

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Talk to him about it.

use your mouth words

Original post by *SweaterWeather*

lol happened to me then he came out as gay

Made my day :biggrin:

Reply 10

AJP98

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Best not to mention it, I've been in this situation, and it can ruin a friendship if they are not interested:*

Reply 11

natalie427

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Just tell him?

Original post by Rome'Mya

I just want some body to hold me down n have my back.

But, doesn't a friend do that anyway?

Reply 12

cheekibreekier

100% don't rush it, you'll regret it.
I'm 17, never had a proper relationship and not too bothered about it.
You'll find someone. I thought I found mine but things happened.
Also, best friends in my opinion don't tend to work out in the long run, or at least if things happen don't expect things to be as good as it was if things end, badly or not.

Reply 13

Anonymous #1

no point me answering bc I'll never find 1 :smile:

Reply 14

MrFudgeTheGuy

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Original post by cheekibreekier

100% don't rush it, you'll regret it.
I'm 17, never had a proper relationship and not too bothered about it.
You'll find someone. I thought i found mine but things happened.
Also, best friends in my opinion don't tend to work out in the long run, or at least if things happen don't expect things to be as good as it was if things end, badly or not.

a nuu cheeki breeki iv damke

Reply 15

Tootles

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Original post by Rome'Mya

So what do you do if you have been the best of friends with your best guy-friend? And you are secretly in love with him but you don't know if he feels the same way... I need a boyfriend i'm not desperate. nor lonely, I just want some body to hold me down n have my back.