always thought that nothing reflects more strongly on a guy then his partner.
Met two guys yesterday through work. First looked nice, tall, decent shape, good career on the surface of it.. but then met his girlfriend who was a mess. Awful looking, rude personality, selfish etc.
Met another guy who honestly looked like a fat lesbian. Imagine nasri but with an extra 50 pounds. Wearing lazy clothes.. normal job etc. But then his girl was stunning. Good looking, very well dressed, really kind, talkative and caring.
Just end up thinking that the 2nd guy must have something more going on, there must be something good inside him that maybe you dont see on the first meeting, but she sees.
With the 1st guy, just sit there thinking 'whats wrong?' - low confidence? bad personality traits? Small dick? some other problem? Alcahol/gambling/drugs etc?