I'm 17 and never had a boyfriend

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Relax, you're only 17!

Focus on yourself, your own life, ambitions, hobbies, interests, happiness, what you love to do! When you let go, someone will start coming in.

To maximise your chances, go out more, go out with your friends, you could meet someone through your friends, through your community, joining clubs out of interest or through college if that is where you at.

Be confident in yourself, wear sexy clothes, keep fit, smile, love life, be charming, bubbly.

I wish you the very best of luck!

Reply 21

BigMan Ting

Original post by Mvine001

I think the problem is that I fear screwing something up. That's why I don't ask girls out. I hate being overly emotional, but that's the way I am. ;(

Nah man i feel you, just make the main goal this year to get into uni and MAKE SURE you meet as many girls, including your flatmates. If you are worrying that you'll screw up then imagine yourself as the girl. They are worried about making the first move, thats why they usually wait for the guy to do it. They are 10x more worried about you rejecting them/or friend zoning them. Chances are they want you but dont know how to say it - so do the ting bro even if you get turned down there is atleast more than one girl who will want you.

Reply 22

Namita Gurung

Hey same here. I haven't had my first kiss either yet but that's by choice.
I come from an extremely strict background so lmao my parents would erupt if I have a bf.

Just let things happen on it's own and don't be so desperate. It'll send people away.

Find time to know yourself first and love you for you. You don't need someone telling you you're beautiful if you don't believe it in the first place.

You're only 17 so live life having fun atm
There's no rush

Reply 23

Anonymous #1

Original post by Shipreck

40 year old perverts don't tend to send messages to people they don't find beautiful :wink:

yes they do

Reply 24

ImagineCats

We're both waaaay too young to make this a priority. This applies to everyone- focus on yourself and yourself ONLY and let the partners slide in as and when they want

Reply 25

Retired_Messiah

I know a good few absolutely stunning lasses who miraculously manage to end up single regardless. I would guess it's more likely that just the "right person" hasn't made an appearance for you as of yet, which isn't necessarily related to anything to do with how you are, per se.

Reply 26

Andy98

Original post by Mvine001

When, that's the problem.

For me it was about 10 minutes after I stopped sulking about being single. If you're happy with yourself and flirt relentlessly someone will bite.

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Reply 27

Nunchuck-master-2334

Original post by Andy98

For me it was about 10 minutes after I stopped sulking about being single. If you're happy with yourself and flirt relentlessly someone will bite.

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I wish I had your confidence, pal. I doubt myself too much. :frown:

Reply 28

Andy98

Original post by Mvine001

I wish I had your confidence, pal. I doubt myself too much. :frown:

Mate, it's not confidence at all; I'm just stupid and don't think about what I say

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Reply 29

Nunchuck-master-2334

Original post by Andy98

Mate, it's not confidence at all; I'm just stupid and don't think about what I say

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How the hell does that work? It doesn't make sense to me, pal.

Reply 30

Andy98

Original post by Mvine001

How the hell does that work? It doesn't make sense to me, pal.

It's your brain that makes you back out when you actually think about what to say because you're overthinking it. Everything I say just bypasses my brain :tongue:

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Reply 31

Nunchuck-master-2334

Original post by Andy98

It's your brain that makes you back out when you actually think about what to say because you're overthinking it. Everything I say just bypasses my brain :tongue:

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Not possible for me. I think too logically. Unfortunately

Reply 32

Andy98

Original post by Mvine001

Not possible for me. I think too logically. Unfortunately

Your brain is like a computer. Now if there's a line of code in that computer which means it isn't giving the desired result; what's the logical thing to do?

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Reply 33

Nunchuck-master-2334

Original post by Andy98

Your brain is like a computer. Now if there's a line of code in that computer which means it isn't giving the desired result; what's the logical thing to do?

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Rewrite the piece of code so that it works. Oh.............................................................