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Broke up with first ever girlfriend and feel terrible

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Reply 20

Elastichedgehog

This feeling fades, try to keep yourself occupied :smile:

I know it sucks but it's just a matter of waiting on it.

(edited 7 years ago)

Reply 21

Illuminatus999

Original post by Mr Smurf

I stopped making such posts months ago when we started dating.

So yiu are oriental and your girlfriend was white?.

Where did you find her?.
On tinder?.

Reply 22

Mr Smurf

Original post by Illuminatus999

So yiu are oriental and your girlfriend was white?.

Where did you find her?.
On tinder?.

Yes.

We met on okcupid

Reply 23

Illuminatus999

Original post by Mr Smurf

Yes.

We met on okcupid

How old are you?.
Because if you are 16 abd crying about this, it's pretty ridiculous.

And why did you break up?.

(edited 7 years ago)

Reply 24

Mr Smurf

Original post by Illuminatus999

How old are you?.
Because if you are 16 abd crying about this, it's pretty ridiculous.

And why did you break up?.

I'm 25. Been in TSR for years now.

We were not sexually compatible. Everything else was perfect.

Reply 25

Illuminatus999

Original post by Mr Smurf

I'm 25. Been in TSR for years now.

We were not sexually compatible. Everything else was perfect.

I see.

I am 24.

Do you mean you wanted sex and she didn't?.

Reply 26

Mr Smurf

Original post by UWS

It will take time. Block her number and delete her from all social media.

We decided to stay friends. :o:

Reply 27

UWS

Original post by Mr Smurf

We decided to stay friends. :o:

Terrible idea and you know that. You won't get over her then.

Reply 28

jamesthehustler

several pints of tequila

I'm sorry OP *hugs*

Original post by Mr Smurf

I'm 25. Been in TSR for years now.

We were not sexually compatible. Everything else was perfect.

What do you mean you were not sexually compatible?

Did she expect more...?

Or...? What?

Reply 31

Mr Smurf

Original post by TorpidPhil

What do you mean you were not sexually compatible?

Did she expect more...?

Or...? What?

I don't really want to go more into the exact reason. But it caused a strain on our relationship and led to times where she was in the mood and I wasn't and vice versa. The relationship started to become platonic so we mutually decided to end it. It wasn't an easy decision by all means.

Reply 32

Lemons1990

I don't believe we get over things but through them.

Time my friend.I thought i would be okay after 3 months but i'm not and that's okay.

Focus on the reasons you broke up.
Write a goodbye letter but don't send it, if you feel you have unsaid things.
But think about everything good that came out from this

The NO CONTACT rule- will untangle you from her, and give you space whilst your hurting to sort out your head.

Cry.
Journal.
Talk to friends.
Break up songs on youtube
Exercise
Eat
and repeat

You will heal.

Reply 33

TorpidPhil

Original post by Mr Smurf

Ahh okay that's quite a tough break-up then really.

I definitely would avoid making too much contact in the short term - just tell her you don't want to make breaking up easier.

Reply 34

scorpion95

I would say keep being social with your friends and in time you will get over it. It may take some time to but it won't be good for you in the long run to mope about

Reply 35

Mr Smurf

Original post by UWS

Terrible idea and you know that. You won't get over her then.

I'm not going to message her any time soon though.

Reply 36

Anonymous #2

Original post by Mr Smurf

How do I get over the feeling of heart break? :frown:

Did she dump u?

Reply 37

danagirl

Heartbreaks are the worst. I think it will be good for you to divert your mind from all this, Take up some other activity that you like, may be like sports, or some music. Keep yourself occupied with things, and don't think too much about the past.