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The I-SOC (Islamic Society) XIII

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As-salamu-alaykum everyone:smile:

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Chapter 58 – Kindness
باب الرفق
The Messenger of Allãh (s.a.w) said:

"Indeed, when gentleness is placed on a thing beautifies it, and when removed from anything it makes it ugly"

.علي بن إبراهيم ، عن أبيه ، عن ابن أبي عمير ، عن عمر بن أذينة ، عن زرارة ، عن أبي جعفر عليه*السلام قال قال رسول الله صلى*الله*عليه*وآله إن الرفق لم يوضع على شيء إلا زانه ولا نزع من شيء إلا شانه

[Kitab Al Kafi - Volume 2 ] [Grading: Hasan like- Saheeh - Mirat Al Uluq]
Original post by Ayaz789
As-salamu-alaykum everyone:smile:

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Walaikum salam warahmatullahi wabarakatu
Original post by mkap
Just looked on Islamqa and found this fatwa. it says its not permissible to see a womens hair but a man can look at a womens face and hands if it encourages him to marry her

https://islamqa.info/en/2572


lol this is not serious, surely. i would never marry someone who i don't know what they look like. this is simple logic
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Walaikum salam warahmatullahi wabarakatu


How are you?:h:

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Original post by Warrior Gene
I don't think it is impermissible to show hairs to a person genuinely interested in marrying you. But shyness and hayaa wins it, to be honest its really really hard to find shy women these days.


Well before nikah we are not allowed. Face, hands and feet are allowed as far as I know.
I agree SubhanAllah. Tbh I don't know how one can't be shy at all.
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Original post by Ayaz789
As-salamu-alaykum everyone:smile:

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Wa'alaykum Assalaam.
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Wa'alaykum Assalaam.


How are you?:tongue:

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:lol: I would never be able to do that to my husband, it would have to be something really really annoying.

Alhamdulillah I don't see myself landing in that situation insha'Allah. But there is someone who asked me as they had this concern and I said he does not need to know but then what if it counts as a lie and is necessary for him to know? You know honesty and trust from start kinda thing :redface:



Showing hair before marriage? 😮 tbh I admire the fact she did not like masha'Allah she sounds so pious. Most girls nowadays if they know they are getting married to that person and is confirmed then they would show.
I am glad everything worked out for them Alhamdulillah.


Yep one of the most religious sisters I've encountered Allahuma barik.
Yep alhamdulilah.
It's a doubtful matter in my opinion so I think it should be avoided, I was always told it is permissible however so now I'm confused lol

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what if you're not too lazy and you do all the work at home


Then pick whatever is more efficient for you :tongue:
Original post by IdeasForLife
Then pick whatever is more efficient for you :tongue:


safe. :h:
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Not sure about any rulings out there for those. I'd just go to their halal events and skip the haram ones.
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Good Alhamdulillah. So windy and raining, my umbrella kept flying away :colonhash: Yourself?

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Yep one of the most religious sisters I've encountered Allahuma barik.
Yep alhamdulilah.
It's a doubtful matter in my opinion so I think it should be avoided, I was always told it is permissible however so now I'm confused lol

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Masha'Allah. May she remain that way insha'Allah.
Yeah I have always known that it is impermissible. I had just heard of allowing face, hands and feet. Even if it was allowed I couldn't come in front of him without it on :/
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As-salamu-alaykum everyone:smile:

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Wa'alaykum asalaam warahmatullahi wabarakatu bro
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Good Alhamdulillah. So windy and raining, my umbrella kept flying away :colonhash: Yourself?



Masha'Allah. May she remain that way insha'Allah.
Yeah I have always known that it is impermissible. I had just heard of allowing face, hands and feet. Even if it was allowed I couldn't come in front of him without it on :/


Yeah good alhamdulillah:smile: same over here , raining heavily:colonhash:

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Wa'alaykum asalaam warahmatullahi wabarakatu bro


How are you?:smile:

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Good Alhamdulillah. So windy and raining, my umbrella kept flying away :colonhash: Yourself?



Masha'Allah. May she remain that way insha'Allah.
Yeah I have always known that it is impermissible. I had just heard of allowing face, hands and feet. Even if it was allowed I couldn't come in front of him without it on :/


In shaa Allah :smile:
Alhamdulilah well I learnt something new then, I'll tell my friends too because some are us are under the impression that it's okay.
Lol same my mum forbids it


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https://youtu.be/LjO6Fx8HYqI

Found this lecture really beneficial for anxiety/depression alhamdulilah

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I went their once and they were giving me dirty looks 😕


why? did you have Sufi written on your forehead?

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