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23 and a virgin...

Im a 23 year old guy whos a virgin with no sexual experience whatsoever .... i always get told im good looking and i find girls checking me out when im in public but i am very anxious about having sex at 23 beacause i know im going to fail to satisfy any girl who sleeps with me due to lack of expereince .... are there any of u out there who lost virginitu in their 20s if so how did it go?
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Original post by Anonymous
Im a 23 year old guy whos a virgin with no sexual experience whatsoever .... i always get told im good looking and i find girls checking me out when im in public but i am very anxious about having sex at 23 beacause i know im going to fail to satisfy any girl who sleeps with me due to lack of expereince .... are there any of u out there who lost virginitu in their 20s if so how did it go?



Hire escorts and sleep with people you will never see again. Take anything you can get.

Just need to get some points on the board bro.
(edited 7 years ago)
Don't feel pressured just to get it over with. It's really not a problem. If you're not meeting anyone try online dating (but maybe not tinder) or just try talking to more people.
Original post by Anonymous
Im a 23 year old guy whos a virgin with no sexual experience whatsoever .... i always get told im good looking and i find girls checking me out when im in public but i am very anxious about having sex at 23 beacause i know im going to fail to satisfy any girl who sleeps with me due to lack of expereince .... are there any of u out there who lost virginitu in their 20s if so how did it go?

At least you don't look like a virgin.

Could be worse.
I'll be your girlfriend
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Do you want a gold star or something?
Not a guy but I really don't think there's anything wrong with you being a virgin. Don't feel pressured into it.
Some girls will really dig a virgin guy😉
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Believe me a lot of women really don't care about men being virgins as much as men think they care

All you need to do is fine a woman who fancies you rotten and would be happy to teach you the tricks of the trade. try an older woman maybe
Lost it at 23. It was terrible. I didn't expect it to go well but it was even worse than that.

You're probably gonna be bad. You're inexperienced and when we do something for the first time, well, we usually suck.

I agree that 'being a narcissist who's not that bothered how much pleasure other people have' helps. Also, alcohol.
Look at it this way... you could have lost your virginity at 18 and only have slept with total munters.
I'm a person who sits around playing video games all day and spend most of my life worrying about my ding-a-ding being slightly curved. Then I realised it wasn't. The point of that haunting tale? Don't worry!

When I first "you know'd", I had no experience. My right hand gal is all I have and so as you can assume, the only experience I had was pumping a shakeweight. Just watch some... videos... and you know, see how it goes. If you understand the mechanic of simply pushing and pulling, then you'll be fine!

I was trying to give you confidence but if I've failed I'm really sorry :-;

Edit : I noticed you said in 20's...
I'm only 17, but I don't see why age should matter :smile:
If you find a lady that you get along with well and have a good relationship, then satisfying her will be no problem at all. Prowess in the sack isn't paramount if you two get along entirely, and that'll lead to pleasant enjoyable intercourse.
(edited 7 years ago)
you do know randy orton lost his virginity in his 20s?
Original post by RossB1702


Your too savage


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