Is it worth waiting?

Back burner

if you're going to wait, make sure he will wait 100% too.

There's someone who I really like, but he's gone to Australia for a year abroad and won't be coming back even once before next summer.

He's one of my best friends, and I'd have absolutely loved to go out with him, but I know he's so far away, we won't see eachother for nearly a year etc.

Today he admitted he fancied me and said that there was something between us, but that he's so far away that it was just not possible, he hoped i'd meet someone else etc.

Do I need to just completely move on or should I see if anything could happen when he comes back next summer? Or is it just completely stupid to wait almost a year for someone?

You already know how you each feel. Just give yourselves a free pass to date and then see what things look like when he gets back. No point putting things on hold.

There's someone who I really like, but he's gone to Australia for a year abroad and won't be coming back even once before next summer.

He's one of my best friends, and I'd have absolutely loved to go out with him, but I know he's so far away, we won't see eachother for nearly a year etc.

Today he admitted he fancied me and said that there was something between us, but that he's so far away that it was just not possible, he hoped i'd meet someone else etc.

Do I need to just completely move on or should I see if anything could happen when he comes back next summer? Or is it just completely stupid to wait almost a year for someone?

Yeah... the thing is, he says he's coming back here next summer, so I wonder if he'd get into a relationship there knowing he's going to leave.

If I'm honest, I think I need to just put it on the back burner, as has been suggested.

I think I'm way more into him than he is to me, despite him saying what he said...

You don't necessarily have to wait for him to come back. I may sound blunt, but you can find dick everywhere. The two of you should just get on with your lives, remain on friendly terms and, if you're both still single when he comes back, give it a shot.

Yeah... the thing is, he says he's coming back here next summer, so I wonder if he'd get into a relationship there knowing he's going to leave.

If I'm honest, I think I need to just put it on the back burner, as has been suggested.

I think I'm way more into him than he is to me, despite him saying what he said...

Why shouldnt he get into a relationship? Let him have his freedom. I wouldnt go and see him either unless he really wnats you to as that makes you a quasi gf and limits him.

Just get on with your own thing.

You don't necessarily have to wait for him to come back. I may sound blunt, but you can find dick everywhere. The two of you should just get on with your lives, remain on friendly terms and, if you're both still single when he comes back, give it a shot.

Maybe it's easy for you. You're pretty n' all.

Thanks, but this applies to women in general. Have your attempts at finding dick been unsuccessful so far?

I'm a guy

No I didn't mean he shouldn't, I mean I will wonder if he'll want to, as he knows he won't be staying there forever.. of course he has the freedom to do that..

I probably won't go and see him, to be honest, unless he did ask me.

The thing is I like him that much I would probably wait lol... but I think he's not completely against the idea of meeting a girl there. He told me he doesn't realy care, and it's really not his priority, but that he doesn't know..

I know. Was just being sarcastic