Muslim boy wants to be with me, I'm Muslim too

My father, mother and I went to this other town to stay a couple of weeks ago, and there was a boy working there. He was more interested in speaking to my father than me, they were both laughing hysterically together and got on so well they exchanged numbers. We kept coming back to this place everyday and the boy would only speak to my dad and then he finally spoke to me and asked for my number when we were alone.

Over text, he keeps telling me how much he likes me and 'wants a serious relationship with me'. He says things like 'your father won't mind' or 'your dad will understand that I like you' etc. I don't know if he is a being serious or not, did he get to know my dad so he could get in his good books then speak to me? I don't know if he'll just try and use me.

My father, mother and I went to this other town to stay a couple of weeks ago, and there was a boy working there. He was more interested in speaking to my father than me, they were both laughing hysterically together and got on so well they exchanged numbers. We kept coming back to this place everyday and the boy would only speak to my dad and then he finally spoke to me and asked for my number when we were alone.Over text, he keeps telling me how much he likes me and 'wants a serious relationship with me'. He says things like 'your father won't mind' or 'your dad will understand that I like you' etc. I don't know if he is a being serious or not, did he get to know my dad so he could get in his good books then speak to me? I don't know if he'll just try and use me.

you're not supposed to engage in unnecessary chit chat with him, otherwise give him a chance I guess?

Yeah I think I'll give him a chance. I already told him I want to stay friends for now and get to know him more before we start thinking like that. Plus, I won't be seeing him for quite a few months anyway because where he lives and works, isn't very near to me. He said he'd 'wait for me'. My dad has no idea this boy likes me, nor does he know we have each others numbers and we've been texting.

The fact he's gotten to know your dad suggests that he's not just going to use you, and if he did only get to know your dad so well in order to get closer to you seems like a plus.

Stop talking to him and tell your dad or tell him to tell your dad that he is interested. A Muslim man doesn't play around, if he is interested he will go straight to the father and ask permission to get to know the daughter. Not have silly chit chat in private.

Stop talking to him and tell your dad or tell him to tell your dad that he is interested. A Muslim man doesn't play around, if he is interested he will go straight to the father and ask permission to get to know the daughter. Not have silly chit chat in private.

Basically this.

Since he has your dad's number, tell him to speak to your dad about marriage.
His response will tell you if he's serious or not.

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My father, mother and I went to this other town to stay a couple of weeks ago, and there was a boy working there. He was more interested in speaking to my father than me, they were both laughing hysterically together and got on so well they exchanged numbers. We kept coming back to this place everyday and the boy would only speak to my dad and then he finally spoke to me and asked for my number when we were alone.

Over text, he keeps telling me how much he likes me and 'wants a serious relationship with me'. He says things like 'your father won't mind' or 'your dad will understand that I like you' etc. I don't know if he is a being serious or not, did he get to know my dad so he could get in his good books then speak to me? I don't know if he'll just try and use me.

I'm not interested in marrying him yet, I don't even know him well enough as friends so far. Marriage would be like 4-5 years off. I'm going back to that town with my friends next time and without my parents, so I can speak to him one to one and he said we could meet up and hang out a lot more.

I'm not interested in marrying him yet, I don't even know him well enough as friends so far. Marriage would be like 4-5 years off. I'm going back to that town with my friends next time and without my parents, so I can speak to him one to one and he said we could meet up and hang out a lot more.

I'm a bit embarrassed to tell my dad that this boy actually likes me and has been saying these things to me because we don't talk about things like this. I don't even want to ask the boy if he's spoken to my dad already in case he actually does go and message my dad. I'd rather just get to know him myself before letting my parents in on this.

If you're not interested then I suggest you cut contact. You don't know what can happen in 4-5 years time, the way you are going about this is wrong. Hanging around all all this malarkey is haram. Better to keep things halal.

I am interested in having a relationship with him, but I would need to know him for a long time before I even considered marrying him. At the moment, I know very little about him and I need to know more about the kind of person he is and that is why I want to hang out with him. He may act differently if my father is with me because he's limited as to what he can and can't say to me - he practically ignores me if I'm stood with my father, but if I'm with friends around our age then he is likely to be a lot more relaxed, and himself.