I've been with my boyfriend since July 2016 and feel like the relationship isn't going anywhere.
This "relationship" ...I feel like I'm not even in one because we only see eachother on weekends he hardly takes me out on dates anymore we just mainly stay home and watch movies now.
-He says he has a hard time opening up to me.
- we haven't said I loves you
- I feel no bond with him
- he says he likes me more than I like him
- he puts in all the effort
- I can go on days without seeing or talking to him and I won't miss him
Everytime I initiate a breakup, he doesn't get it. He pretends like I never even said anything. One time I broke up with him in person and he chased me around not letting me go home, people in public got scared for me, he's gotten physical where he pushed on the ground because he didn't want me to leave his house, slams and breaks stuff when we have a little disagreement. The last time I tried breaking up with him at his house in person he got up walked away so I couldn't even have that convo with him.
Question is... This relationship isn't going anywhere, I haven't done anything for him really, why is it so hard for him to accept a break up. He can get girls, he was just in a relationship 7 months before me?