This guy is too keen :S

I met this guy about three weeks ago. I've met up with him a few times, and we seemed to get on really well, I thought he was really sweet. Over text a couple of days later, he confessed to having feelings for me and I told him I felt the same way. He then then text me 'I love you' the next day, I was taken aback and tried to avoid it, and said I really like you too.

Tonight he also spammed me with about 5 lines of heart emojis and said 'I love you too much'. I said to him 'you can't love me already, you don't know me well enough, you're infatuated' but he kept saying he just had a feeling I was the 'one' and he believes his feeling, he said he knows I'm the woman he'll love. Maybe he's just a hopeless romantic, maybe I'm too much of a pessimist, I don't know, he just seems a little naive and is coming across a bit strong. What do you think?

Ok first off tell me his age..

He is 21.

I met this guy about three weeks ago. I've met up with him a few times, and we seemed to get on really well, I thought he was really sweet. Over text a couple of days later, he confessed to having feelings for me and I told him I felt the same way. He then then text me 'I love you' the next day, I was taken aback and tried to avoid it, and said I really like you too.

Tonight he also spammed me with about 5 lines of heart emojis and said 'I love you too much'. I said to him 'you can't love me already, you don't know me well enough, you're infatuated' but he kept saying he just had a feeling I was the 'one' and he believes his feeling, he said he knows I'm the woman he'll love. Maybe he's just a hopeless romantic, maybe I'm too much of a pessimist, I don't know, he just seems a little naive and is coming across a bit strong. What do you think?

from a girl's point of view, that does sound pretty desperate... but this only from a female point of view.

Yeah and he doesn't know my personality well enough, we haven't had 'deep' conversations, talked about our passions, goals for the future etc. He compliments my appearance and tells me often that I'm very beautiful, I think he might only like me for my appearance I can't judge much without having met up with him frequently, but so far I'm a bit torn.

Think you have more or less nailed it.

1. What do you feel? Youve said above too strong, too fast and now you are having doubts as he is throwing himself at you, when he doesnt know you, which makes you question his suitability.

2. Too young or naive? As you point out he doesnt know you, even if he likes you, the words have nor significance and meaning for you, so to hear them so quickly followed up by the one etc makes it all feel a bit false.

3. Immature? is that what you want. Theres a ime and a place for emojis.

I would say have a chat and give him the opportunity to calm down and continue a a pace you are comfy with. If he cnat stop being a puppy, then you have your answer. I'd find it a bit annoying and irritating tbh.

Think you have more or less nailed it.

1. What do you feel? Youve said above too strong, too fast and now you are having doubts as he is throwing himself at you, when he doesnt know you, which makes you question his suitability.

2. Too young or naive? As you point out he doesnt know you, even if he likes you, the words have nor significance and meaning for you, so to hear them so quickly followed up by the one etc makes it all feel a bit false.

3. Immature? is that what you want. Theres a ime and a place for emojis.

I would say have a chat and give him the opportunity to calm down and continue a a pace you are comfy with. If he cnat stop being a puppy, then you have your answer. I'd find it a bit annoying and irritating tbh.

You're right, he's either desperate or infatuated. You have to go through a whole lot of **** with someone in order to be inlove. I've been with my bf for about five months if I can count right and he just recently said it, Ommgggg stop ****ing lyin'. It feels good to be grown.

Yeah I totally understand what you mean. I have been in a relationship before and there was none of this, there was affection but it felt more mature and we really knew each other inside out so the I love you's had meaning. I think because he's just met me, he feels as though all of this new and exciting, I should probably stop speaking to him every single day, and limit it to every few days so he calms down a bit.

if i were only a few weeks into the relationship, I wouldn't want an overflow of heart emojis though... maybe it's just me??

if i were only a few weeks into the relationship, I wouldn't want an overflow of heart emojis though... maybe it's just me??

if i were only a few weeks into the relationship, I wouldn't want an overflow of heart emojis though... maybe it's just me??

do u knw y u like him though? is it cos of the compliments? Maybe you can ask him what part of u he likes?
since he can be bold about his love for u, i don't think asking would hurt.