I have been in university for one month now but feels like 3 months already I like the University itself and the course I do have friends inside my course but since all of them lives at home with their parents and have strict rules which I understand from parent stand point so they don’t go out much. Outside the course I live in the university halls and really hate it, I already moved once within the university Accommodation halls but that didn’t made different either I am very lonely, bored to death especially on the weekends not so much during the week since I have work to do but cannot keep doing work all the time I need some balance between my social life and studies I never had social life since moving into university what stress me out even more is that I never have money to to live on in university because most of my student finance goes towards my Accommodation so that leaves me with nothing much to live on I can’t afford the essential s of life not even for course related stuff for university I did went back home that was breath of fresh air and made forget about even living at university.
I do really miss home and have all my friends and family but at university i am lonely to the point of not coming back. I am willing to commute to university next year which is only 2 hour 30mins journey. Since i am on under a contract from the university Accommodation halls the only 3 options I have 1st option: Find a replacement Tenant but that seems like 50/50 even chance. 2nd option To drop out of university that way they will terminate the contract and I can apply to university closer to home for next year but to be honesty I don’t really want to do that since I really like university itself. 3rd Which seems like the only way to is to leave university Accommodation altogether and cancel my direct debit with them change my contact details even my address so they can’t find me I don’t care for credit ratings all that crap since my happiness, well being and studies come first. I have read the contract and the only way to leave the contract correctly are option 1. I have told the student support team and finance adviser at the university but they real not that helpful
I do know it really long but thanks for taking time and reading my story the student room is the only place i can get help.