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Yeah families are pretty bad at assuming what other people's tastes are. People in general are to a degree, come to think of it.

Yea true point there.

Reply 21

Anonymous #1

That is a very true point there :smile:

Reply 22

username1339858_

Im not a guy so can't answer your question. However, your family had no right to say such a thing.
Don't let them get you down! One day you'll be a living proof that they were wrong.
I'd be your friend for sure.
I'm amazed at your being a carer at such a tender age! It takes a strong person to do that so don't worry, you are made of tough stuff and will battle through your low blue days, certainly.

Reply 23

Anonymous #1

Yea i know and i try not but its a struggle tbh. Maybe so,
Aww :smile:

Aw why? I did what i had to. And thank you for the kind words.

Reply 24

username2452709

Hell yeah I would, I would be honour to have someone who is as socially awkward as i am, to be my first girl friend, so go for it, I believe in you.

Reply 25

username1726117

Ignore your family. It's untrue.

Trust me. :smile:

Reply 26

Anonymous #1

Original post by Demonlover1

Hell yeah I would, I would be honour to have someone who is as socially awkward as i am, to be my first girl friend, so go for it, I believe in you.

Why thank you :smile:

I will try to :smile:

Reply 27

queenofswords

ARE YOU ME? That is exactly me.

Reply 28

username2387497

I'd date you :smile:

I don't see anything wrong and you come across as a lovely young lady already :smile:

Reply 29

username1339858_

Original post by Anonymous

Yea i know and i try not but its a struggle tbh. Maybe so,
Aww :smile:

Aw why? I did what i had to. And thank you for the kind words.

Yh. It is probably a struggle. Just know that there are people out here who care about you even though we don't know you.

You will, you will. I am sure of it. And you seem to already be making steps to deal with your lack of socialness (not a word i dont think). A lot of people have social awkwardness so we all understand.

Maybe you felt you had to, but you could have just ignored it or turned a blind eye etc. So many other options you know.

You are welcome ☺

Reply 30

username2452709

Exactly what is a date like I've never had one? Also never had a girlfriend though, so I'm only good for support in this situation. But still good luck

Reply 31

Lord Samosa

If you're not happy with yourself, don't look for a relationship. Focus on yourself and being comfortable in your own skin first, that's more important.

Reply 32

Anonymous #1

Original post by FireFreezer77

I'd date you :smile:

I don't see anything wrong and you come across as a lovely young lady already :smile:

Aw and thats sweet of ya to say. :smile:

Reply 33

Anonymous #1

Original post by queenofswords

ARE YOU ME? That is exactly me.

Hah why you the same??

Thank you for the kind and encouraging words and true i could of ignored it but i didnt. And dont worry about making up your own words i do that alot.

Original post by Demonlover1

Exactly what is a date like I've never had one? Also never had a girlfriend though, so I'm only good for support in this situation. But still good luck

Hah same here but with a boyfriend and thank you, good luck to you too.

Original post by Lord Samosa

If you're not happy with yourself, don't look for a relationship. Focus on yourself and being comfortable in your own skin first, that's more important.

That might be true point there.

Reply 34

JBlinko

Original post by Anonymous

Would you date a slightly social awkward person who has a lot of "baggage" due to her past, and suffers with really low moods (which is due to the bad situation she lives in)and who is shy but once you get to know her she is quite talkative.

She is like 5'3/5'4 and has what most would say is a lovely personality and who thinks she is ugly but every one tells her she aint and that she is good looking.

Guys would ya??

Lol, this is currently my gf I swear.

Reply 35

username2452709

P.s I would totally date you but I doubt that you live in England, so huh

Reply 36

TreeFellOnMe

Well.. from my experience I find that two people in the more negative side of things will repel each other. Unless both of us can be understanding of each other, you'd need someone who isn't so similar to you.