Yes we know, so stop acting "nice" and just act normal, the same you would around guy friends. When you treat someone like gold dust, they see themselves as better then you. If they're better then you, why would they be attracted to you? Just treat them as your equals.
well, you're almost completely correct - if you treat her as if you're better then she'll chase you, because girls (and basically anybody) want what they think they can't easily get
The entire of your initial post literally radiated cockiness.
trust me, I can be a whole lot worse if I want but nah: girls love cocky - you just have to be funny to pull it off correctly that kind of atmosphere *tends* to really get girls more flirty and excited I know this because I used to be a run of the mill "nice guy"(tm). until I realised that it was getting me absolutely nowhere and as soon as I dropped the nice guy vibe I started seeing some pretty clear results - I'm not saying I became a total magnet - I'm only saying it *really* helped.
Yes we know, so stop acting "nice" and just act normal, the same you would around guy friends. When you treat someone like gold dust, they see themselves as better then you. If they're better then you, why would they be attracted to you? Just treat them as your equals.
well, you're almost completely correct - if you treat her as if you're better then she'll chase you, because girls (and basically anybody) want what they think they can't easily get
Never had any luck with anyone, not just girls, by treating people as under me. I think that attracts a specific type of person, that I'm probably not into. I've only really had success with girls I just spoke to as I do with anyone else. Start as friends and move on from there
Never had any luck with anyone, not just girls, by treating people as under me. I think that attracts a specific type of person, that I'm probably not into. I've only really had success with girls I just spoke to as I do with anyone else. Start as friends and move on from there
I mean, there are definitely girls who are more turned on to that kind of guy but I don't think they're as willing to put out. different strokes, I guess.
I mean, there are definitely girls who are more turned on to that kind of guy but I don't think they're as willing to put out. different strokes, I guess.
I'd agree with that, it's more a long term thing I'm talking about then casual stuff
typically a "nice guy" is someone who treats women as though they are not people but rather some ethereal superior beings...of course this is not attractive.
I think it's still fair enough to conclude that your comparison was pretty misplaced considering it...but whatever. I mean, even your *username* is pretty gay, isn't it. you're giving me a lot to work with!
well, I mean, I do. well, okay, I'll level with you - "I do from time to time". and when I do, it's because I'm not a "nice guy"(tm) I mean, I've been out twice in 2 weeks, and each time, I either brought a girl home, or I made out with one.