Girls aren't attracted to nice guys

Any level of cocky. So try again.


The trouble lies in people's definitions of "nice guy". The men who complain that girls don't go for "nice guys", identify as nice guys themselves, but in reality they aren't.

They think that showering a girl with compliments, pining over her, and doing anything and everything for her in order to get her to bed is "nice guy" behaviour. But it's not. Truth is, most girls see right through it, it's not genuine if you are only being nice because you want a shag.

In my eyes I have much more respect for a man who is nice and considerate to people regardless of his interest in them, but at the same time isn't a carpet, doesn't do anything that's asked of him in order to ingratiate himself to the woman. But when needs to, puts his foot down. That is a guy I respect. No he's not cocky, he's not a "bad boy", just an honest, respectable man.

You guys are so clueless


One of the biggest turn offs for me, is when a guy tries to compliment you by putting down other women. And I find that many guys who think of themselves as "nice guys" do this.


Oh and just because you are the reverse of a bad boy, just because you are quiet and geeky, that does not make you a nice guy.

Bull ****. Complete and utter bs.
Any respecting girl will run for the hills.

Although you might harbour some success with girls suffering low self esteem.

What you just stated is actually a mechanism used by perpetrators of domestic abuse,

lowering the woman's (or man's) self-value by persistently insinuating you are the better one. And then you are more likely to retain her/ him despite your poor behaviour, because they feel you are the best they deserve.

I cannot stand that you think you are some big success with women, you are probably absolutely hanging mate Jog on

Sarcasm?

If what you say is true (I don't know, I'm not a girl), then I guess I'm gonna be forever alone.

Oh heavenly blessed beauty, whose inner beauty is simply diving and everlasting, I would love to be your princess. If you want to talk to a good friend, honest, sweet and tender, you can do with me at any moment, I am a good person, kind, loyal and sincere. My friendship that I offer you is clean and transparent. I congratulate to you, because you are very beautiful, your beauty, your charming figure, your pleasant and angelical smile, your personality, your happiness, your charm, your kindness, your beautiful eyes, your lips soft and exquisite, delicate your hands, your legs precious Your beautiful, spectacular and divine body, you have all these qualities and more, you are a wonderful and perfect man, your gaze is tender and sweet, penetrating my soul. The beauty of a rose has no comparison with the sweetness of your face and the beauty of your heart. I am of the people, I like to have a good relationship with all my friends.

haha not at all

nope, I think I'd know a little more about this than you seeing as I'm the one out there experiencing what girls like and don't like - as a girl you'll just think "hmm, well I like _ so that's what every girl likes therefore". no. we don't live in an ideal world. most girls like jerks because they're *****es. they attract themselves.



it's not low self esteem - it's called being a normal girl. it's normal psychology.



what?!
so when girls themselves also play "hard to get", and believe me, the ****ing norm is for women to play hard to get, then what exactly are you implying?



yep. that's just how it goes.



I'm really not though. and please don't attempt that dialect again for the love of god

You think you are able to speak for an entire gender because of your own selective experience?
Like I said, clueless.

Hot guy, who's nice but looks bad is the best type.

how does one look bad?

Oh heavenly blessed beauty, whose inner beauty is simply diving and everlasting, I would love to be your princess. If you want to talk to a good friend, honest, sweet and tender, you can do with me at any moment, I am a good person, kind, loyal and sincere. My friendship that I offer you is clean and transparent. I congratulate to you, because you are very beautiful, your beauty, your charming figure, your pleasant and angelical smile, your personality, your happiness, your charm, your kindness, your beautiful eyes, your lips soft and exquisite, delicate your hands, your legs precious Your beautiful, spectacular and divine body, you have all these qualities and more, you are a wonderful and perfect man, your gaze is tender and sweet, penetrating my soul. The beauty of a rose has no comparison with the sweetness of your face and the beauty of your heart. I am of the people, I like to have a good relationship with all my friends.

how does one look bad?