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Is there a pressure to be sexually active at University?
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Not really. The only pressure is that which you impose on yourself. Only a really sad person still has that mindset when they get to uni. It's completely the wrong place and time to be hounding after women. Get your degree, get a good job, get some property, find a wife. That's the formula for success, don't mix-up the order.
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Reue
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No
Pressure to have sex is usually self perpetuated. "omg everybody else is having this and I'm not wtf" kind of thing

Original post by Mistletoe
Not really. The only pressure is that which you impose on yourself. Only a really sad person still has that mindset when they get to uni. It's completely the wrong place and time to be hounding after women. Get your degree, get a good job, get some property, find a wife. That's the formula for success, don't mix-up the order.


Success is relative to what one actually values in their life. You can't use one order as a universal standard.
Original post by Retired_Messiah
Success is relative to what one actually values in their life. You can't use one order as a universal standard.

Life is genetic so genes have implicit value. Thus passing on genes successfully has implicit value.
Not really. Though I certainly wish I was. :gah: :gah: :gah:
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Oar
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Literally no.
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There's no pressure - by all means you don't have to jump on the bandwagon if you don't want to. But be aware that university is the best opportunity you will ever get to find a gf and/or sex. It's a lot easier when you have friends and are part of a social circle/community - those are a lot harder to maintain once you leave. Not to mention that these experiences will improve your confidence and get you out of your comfort zone. Just by going on the nightclub circuit and pulling, you'll learn more lessons about life, relationships and emotions than anyone can teach you in a lecture.
Original post by Mistletoe
Not really. The only pressure is that which you impose on yourself. Only a really sad person still has that mindset when they get to uni. It's completely the wrong place and time to be hounding after women. Get your degree, get a good job, get some property, find a wife. That's the formula for success, don't mix-up the order.


Your life must be a bundle of fun if you live it on that basis.
Original post by FriendlyPenguin
Your life must be fun if you spend it trawling through year-old threads on TSR to reply to ancient posts that offend you...


Nope, not offended, just amused! ☺️

What else is a girl gonna do at 6am? Not like sleeping was working out.
yes definitely, when you walk into the club and see all them galsssss HAHAHAH
Is there much gay sex in uni?

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