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First Time Anal - What's your Story!

Me and my boyfriend want to try anal for the first time. Was just curious to hear your stories! Let me know how you went through the process. Girls, was it painful? Did you like it? Guys, was it what you expected? Any bad fails?! Any advice!!
Being on the penis end: I didn't realise that it wasn't vaginal sex (she was on top). The pressure on the urethra can make ejaculation painful.

Being on the anus end: being in control of what happened - how much, how fast - helped.
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Mine was for work in afilm studio, was quite difficult, little painful
Mine was with an employee for a job at my studio, was a good laugh
Original post by Ruth199
Mine was for work in a film studio, was quite difficult, little painful


! You do know that 'my first anal' porn films are lying / mean 'the first time I've been filmed doing this'? And they usually edit out some of the necessary prep?

Original post by jimmytheslayer
Mine was with an employee for a job at my studio, was a good laugh


Ho ho ho.
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Original post by unprinted
! You do know that 'my first anal' porn films are lying / mean 'the first time I've been filmed doing this'? And they usually edit out some of the necessary prep?



Ho ho ho.


Of course, yes they're edited, like every movie is.
Original post by Ruth199
Of course, yes they're edited, like every movie is.


Well, I hope you were paid a pile of money, but I strongly suspect that it was no more than you could have got escorting when you'd have control over what happened as well as being able to maintain privacy.
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Original post by unprinted
Well, I hope you were paid a pile of money, but I strongly suspect that it was no more than you could have got escorting when you'd have control over what happened as well as being able to maintain privacy.


It was well paid don't worry. No i wouldn't do that and it's not the same work at all
Original post by Ruth199
It was well paid don't worry. No i wouldn't do that and it's not the same work at all


Yep, unless you're one of the handful who 'make it' in porn, it's worse than escorting.
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Original post by unprinted
Yep, unless you're one of the handful who 'make it' in porn, it's worse than escorting.


it was just temporary for me, no career planned
Original post by Ruth199
it was just temporary for me, no career planned


But the downside is that you know that plenty of people will always have video of you having anal. That includes potential partners and employers. Plus if you ever become famous, it's quite likely that one of them will go 'hang on, I recognise them' and go to the press with a copy.
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Original post by unprinted
But the downside is that you know that plenty of people will always have video of you having anal. That includes potential partners and employers. Plus if you ever become famous, it's quite likely that one of them will go 'hang on, I recognise them' and go to the press with a copy.


I know, that's a downside, but that the way it is
it was pretty hot tbh, i mean it stung like ****, and everything got a bit messy.

Let me set the scene, i am walking down canal street in manchester, and some hot dude in his 30s wolf-whistles me (im 16 btw),
i go over and we start talking about everything and he asks if ive ever tried anal, i say no but that i've alwasys wanted to.We went back to his apartment and he covered me in lube, then spread by legs and took me from behind, whilst jerking my cock.

It felt so amazing, but for a few days after it stung and hurt when i walked, overall, go for it, just remember lots of lube.
The boyfriend and I did it after a few drinks (after bringing it up in conversation a few times previously). The drink probably helped, I wasn't as self conscious/weirded out. Used plenty of lube and took in slow. Kinda felt weird and a bit wrong at first. Fast forward a year later and I wouldn't say it happens loads but I'm not adverse to it and do find it pleasurable. Tip: My boyfriend sometimes plays with my hole during sex anyway, so being fingered up there whilst having sex almost gets you used to the situation. Good luck!
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Yeah people should really remember that people under 16 use this site. So don't read the question as your opportunity to brag and write pornographically your exploits. If you had written it directly to a 14 yr old online you'd be on grooming charges 🙄
Reply 15
U have to let yr boyfriend lick u and finger it slowly in till open
Reply 16
Go on shower and start finger yrself and keep poring worm water to yr bum

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