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Second time sex wasn't that great. Why did I feel a little sad afterwards?

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RobML
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Original post by Nirvana1989-1994
Lol, I know, I've had sex before.

But, I dunno, other factors in this story, don't lead me to think it's just that.


That only negative I could gather from OP is that she felt he may have only been trying to get himself off, which is nothing conclusive.
Why on earth are you suggesting she dump him?
Original post by RobML
That only negative I could gather from OP is that she felt he may have only been trying to get himself off, which is nothing conclusive.
Why on earth are you suggesting she dump him?


Read my other replies.

I guess, I have a low tolerance for people.
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Original post by Nirvana1989-1994
Read my other replies.

I guess, I have a low tolerance for people.


I have and I still can't comprehend your reasoning. Care to elaborate?
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Original post by RobML
I have and I still can't comprehend you reasoning. Care to elaborate?



Clearly you didn't read my last reply. What are you try to insinuate here?
Original post by RobML
I have and I still can't comprehend you reasoning. Care to elaborate?


she got a 'no ****boys allowed inside me' policy
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Original post by Nirvana1989-1994
Clearly you didn't read my last reply. What are you try to insinuate here?


"I have a low tolerance for people" doesn't explain anything about why you think this guy is in the wrong enough to justify a break up
Original post by Rhaenys10
she got a 'no ****boys allowed inside me' policy


You get me. :wink:
Original post by RobML
"I have a low tolerance for people" doesn't explain anything about why you think this guy is in the wrong enough to justify a break up


Noooo, I meant my last reply to OP.

Plus, she never said he was her BF.
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Original post by Nirvana1989-1994
I'm sorry that I wasn't much help. :frown:

Perhaps, see how it goes next time, if he's the same, it's probably best to forget about him. Good luck OP. :smile:

That's what I plan to do when I see him tonight.

He is my boyfriend by the way
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That's what I plan to do when I see him tonight.

He is my boyfriend by the way


Okay, good. :smile:

Hope it goes okay. :h:
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Original post by Nirvana1989-1994
Noooo, I meant my last reply to OP.

Plus, she never said he was her BF.


All I can see is speculation based on a vague second hand account...
Original post by RobML
All I can see is speculation based on a vague second hand account...


Well, if you say so :h:
Original post by Anonymous
That's what I plan to do when I see him tonight.

He is my boyfriend by the way


I guess you could also, you know, talk to him about it? You're his damn girlfriend, not a sex slave. Tell him if something's bothering, take the lead if you feel like it. You losing your virginity not so long ago doesn't mean you can't enjoy yourself a little too.
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Original post by Nirvana1989-1994
Well, if you say so :h:


You're basically telling someone their boyfriend is bad and they should split but you can't even explain what he's done wrong. I think you should stay out of their business in that case.
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Original post by RobML
You're basically telling someone their boyfriend and they should split is bad but you can't even explain what he's done wrong. I think you should stay out of their business in that case.


Lol, she put a thread up asking people what she should do, I made various comments.

You have no authority to tell me what to do, boyo. :h:

How about you stick to your threads asking about 'desi girls'. :wink:
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Original post by Nirvana1989-1994
Lol, she put a thread up asking people what she should do, I made various comments.

You have no authority to tell me what to do, boyo. :h:

How about you stick to your threads asking about 'desi girls'. :wink:


Yeah, at least make a convincing argument.
No relationship is going to have consistent great sex, lower your standards.

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Original post by RobML
Yeah, at least make a convincing argument.
No relationship is going to have consistent great sex, lower your standards.

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I did.
But, think what you want. :h:
Original post by Rhaenys10
I guess you could also, you know, talk to him about it? You're his damn girlfriend, not a sex slave. Tell him if something's bothering, take the lead if you feel like it. You losing your virginity not so long ago doesn't mean you can't enjoy yourself a little too.


Lol of course. I'm very open with my boyfriend. Afterwards he asked how I was feeling etc and I told him I thought we moved to sex too quickly. I will talk to him about it in detail. He said he's not been with someone inexperienced before and the first time he was making sure he was really gentle. he knows when I'm uncomfortable I will let him know like I did when I felt pain this morning. I just wasn't sure if this was a case of him just wanting to get off, although he has never given me any reason to believe he's just in it for sex.
Reply 38
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Original post by Nirvana1989-1994
I did.
But, think what you want. :h:


What do you study if you think that counts as a convincing argument? :confused:
Original post by RobML
What do you study if you think that counts as a convincing argument? :confused:


What? That I changed my mind.

You, for some reason, are getting angry about this.

What I study has no relevance, but good try. :wink:

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