Why do guys suddenly avoid you?

As a guy myself, I advise it's best not to try and understand us. We do weird things that make sense only to ourselves.

I relate to some of the weird crap guys do. I spoke to one 24/7 and after after we met up...radio silence. We met up as friends and both had an awesome time so unless im misunderstanding the situation...i'm stumped. He still likes my photos and watches my story and stuff.

If you were to act like that, what would the reason be?

Doll I'm going to be brutally honest here, but the answer is in your last sentence " I'm not the kind of girl someone would fall head over heels for". You don't value yourself and I was exactly the same. Up until last year I had no real inkling to my own self value. My self esteem was virtually non existent and I didn't realize how much it bullying from secondary school still affected me . I let someone push and treat me badly because I thought I didn't deserve anything better.I thought he was so wonderful because I didn't expect boys to actually be nice to girls.

Boys want girls they deem to be of high value. You ARE worthy. You are good enough but you just need to actually be able to see that first. Love yourself first and the rest WILL follow. Most people actually have a huge problem with that and it sounds so simplistic- but i didn't love myself and it showed. I wasn't confident in myself. You don't have to be the hottest girl in the room, but you have to know you are a woman of high value- but you have to work on yourself. I had the guy I like literally tickling and putting his hands all over another girl in front of me, because he knew it would get to me. Real men do NOT play mind games.

Do you really want someone who is just going to be a flake and play with your emotions? You don't deserve that.

The books I honestly would recommend that you start reading now:

Love yourself like your life depends on it by Kamal Ravikant
F*CK Him! - Nice Girls Always Finish Single - Brian Keephimattracted
Never Chase Men Again-Bruce Bryans

Yes the dating books sound silly but they teach one main thing: Know your value.

Thank you so much!!! This is exactly what I needed right now. I literally have NO self esteem. I have NO confidence in myself. That's why I think I'm just overthinking because nobody will ever like me. I really need to work on building up my self esteem and this really really helped!

Thank you so much!!! This is exactly what I needed right now. I literally have NO self esteem. I have NO confidence in myself. That's why I think I'm just overthinking because nobody will ever like me. I really need to work on building up my self esteem and this really really helped!

please don't take that advice or read those books

you'll probably turn out to be one of those girls who love themselves too much and think they deserve a price charming/male model ..who also moonlights as a stockbroker in between shoots

there's far too many of these girls already in the UK ... don't add to them

if you really need some confidence or self esteem just open a dating profile on a well known dating website and you'll get all the confidence and self esteem you need as males will flock to you and tell you're beautiful and gorgeous and lovely ...etc etc