gf dumped me 2am over drunk text

I didn't take offence but how did you know I would find it funny? do we speak, darling?

What was it you said that got took down ?

Great, anything else?

It's still too soon to tell but cheers for asking love

you will soon mann, chin up and keep going, it may not seem like it but there's better people in the world, those who will care for you no matter what ppl say or whatever gets in their way.

Do you think she got back with her ex? Why would she just change her mind out the blue?

thanks sweetheart, aside from a couple haters on here I'm doing all right on this end now, like looking back in hindsight at all that was wrong with her and how emotions made my judgement all cloudy before. Plus I had good night with the lads and everything in my life is the same with or without her anyway so.

I'm less gutted that she did a legger because she felt I was troubling her (I wasn't) and more gutted that she of all people left, and then how she left. That's all really. Like I like to defend myself and she left in a way that prevented me from dong that so I'm sat fuming but...whatever. When I calm down ((I'm startin to) I will move on and find someone else and we'll see where goes.

I've been reading this thread and wish you all the best. If she isn't even decent enough to give you an explaination you're better off without her, even if you don't feel that way right now.

Thank you so much, you and I have had differences before that could've gone nasty and you putting that aside to empathise for a bit shows your character.

This. This is why Men are afraid to date, but then women expect us to "be confident" and Ask them out.
Joking, Right?

OP, Keep your head high and ignore this toxicated loon, When God closes a door he opens a window i.e There's good in everything.

Anytime! That's what friends are for! Ignore the haters lol (I'm the last person who should be saying this because I never do it myself) but anyway, that's good, see you didn't her.
Lots of people cross paths with you in real life but its only some that have a positive impact
That's great to hear! A bit of lad time always helps bring the positives out ennit mate
Exactly x
You were actually helping her so much and cared, I find it really annoying how, just because someone doesn't wanaa know you anymore, they make some random sh** about you and just say it when its nowhere near the truth.
That's good, you'll find peace soon, there's light at the end of the tunnel matey, there are lots of good people here who genuinely care about you, reach for the stars (once again my username comes in handy) lol
See that's the kinda positive outlook on life we all need when something sad happens what a legend you are

Her ex is long distance, they broke up because she said she can't do long distance and she left him, he's moved on we've seen em on facebook. But she says HE dm'ed her and whatever it doesn't matter, I'm not bothered about that, I just don't like that it felt sneaky. Because that shows she thinks it's wrong nevermind my reaction IF I find out, but of course I did find out. Like why does she have to snake around chatting to him if it's no big deal to her? She should've just done it in my face if she felt it wasn't wrong. Her sneaking..yea is indication that she knows it's wrong. So we actually had an argument about the logistics of it more so than about her actual actions do you get me?

Anyway I don't think they're gonna get back together because of distance, one of them would have to be so desperate to take a train all the way to each other just for sex when she can easily just have sex with me and when he's already with someone. So I'm not bothered about him at all, it's more so her behaviour all over, her texting is a fly in the soup but as I said...she deliberately exacerbated things. So we didnt break up bout her ex anyway, she left because I basically hurt her feelings, so she said she "can't do it" and that we argue "75%" of the time and apparently friday night it finally boiled over

How long were you guys dating ?

yea she was constantly focusing on the negatives and it was impossible to have a clear conversation with her. She was a ****ing wall. And I was tryna move on like literally put my hands over my ears. Told her I don't wana talk about t. She leaves for a cig, comes back keeps gobbing off. So either it was the liquor and she doesn't mean it at all which is shame on me for reacting how I did so soon but whatever we can't all be angels, AND/OR she really wants to split and just used bickering like a child as the catalyst/reason to split :|

Thing is, every friday she goes binge drinking so Idk if she planned to go binge drinking just to use liquor as an excuse to fight me, and then use the fight as a reason to leave.... or if it just happened that way and she was drunk and will calm down soon... Or if I really did just hurt her feelings and push her away (doubt) and it's officially over.

but whatever honestly. I don't see it going anywhere now if her brother is whiteknighting her when she's in the wrong. But truth be told I always hated her brother so I dont see how this would've worked anyhow. :|

On/off since we were in year 11. We're both 24 now.

LMAO honestly she sounds like a joke lol, you'll be so much better off without her mann, that post made me smile lol, I was just smiling at my laptop screen, what a freak am I lol
How many times did I write lol in that post? :O
damnnn lol
(oml not again^)