Have I messed up?

I met this guy on the bus just over a month ago. I'd recently been dumped, so after flirting with a handsome stranger, I felt pretty good about it! He gave me his number and we met up a few days later. When we've met up, its been to a coffee shop and having dinner. I've met his friends, who are all so nice to me, and I met his mum and sister. All going well, right?

Nearly two weeks ago, because I live a bus ride away, he suggested that I could stay over at his, because we went bowling late at night and it would save me having to get a lift.

Long story short, we slept together. In the morning, it wasn't awkward like I thought it'd be. It was very loving. We had breakfast together and kissed goodbye when I went home.

Me, being as insecure as I was, immediately thought that something was wrong. We met up again and it was like everything was normal again, but we didn't kiss like last time. Afterwards, I texted him, asking the next time we met up, if it could be a "proper date" and he replied, saying "I'll think about it". Now I feel like I've made things awkward between us.

Everything was going so well up until then and I'm so scared that I've messed things up. I know that its only been a month, so maybe waiting for a date would be a good thing, but I dont know what he will say. Also, my ex recently got into a relationship, so that's some added pressure...

Opinions?

Was you drunk?

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I met this guy on the bus just over a month ago. I'd recently been dumped, so after flirting with a handsome stranger, I felt pretty good about it! He gave me his number and we met up a few days later. When we've met up, its been to a coffee shop and having dinner. I've met his friends, who are all so nice to me, and I met his mum and sister. All going well, right?

Nearly two weeks ago, because I live a bus ride away, he suggested that I could stay over at his, because we went bowling late at night and it would save me having to get a lift.

Long story short, we slept together. In the morning, it wasn't awkward like I thought it'd be. It was very loving. We had breakfast together and kissed goodbye when I went home.

Me, being as insecure as I was, immediately thought that something was wrong. We met up again and it was like everything was normal again, but we didn't kiss like last time. Afterwards, I texted him, asking the next time we met up, if it could be a "proper date" and he replied, saying "I'll think about it". Now I feel like I've made things awkward between us.

Everything was going so well up until then and I'm so scared that I've messed things up. I know that its only been a month, so maybe waiting for a date would be a good thing, but I dont know what he will say. Also, my ex recently got into a relationship, so that's some added pressure...

Opinions?

Some of this doesn't make sense to me. You asked him for a 'proper' date and are now worried that you've messed things up. But you say in your first para that you went out for dinner! What's that if it's not a 'proper' date?

I'm not quite sure what you're asking here. What are you worried about, given that you've already had what most people would consider a proper date with him?