Second time sex wasn't that great. Why did I feel a little sad afterwards?

What do you study if you think that counts as a convincing argument?

I love how she says no ****bois when she's a basic thot herself

You know nothing about me, Hun.

Good try though.

Well I do suppose that was a little "too judgemental" on my part...but thanks for the acknowledgement my basic tsr friend.

I've never been called 'basic' before, how exciting...

I'm a supreme gentleman, 10/10 and my parents are rich, and I own a BMW coupe, and I'm angry that I'm a virgin and uglier guys get hot blonde girls like you. I wouldn't look at you twice in the street. Just thought I'd say that

BMW you say

So it happened this morning, the second time I've had sex since losing my virginity. We fooled around for a short amount of time (not long enough). I told him to put on a condom to prevent any accidents. Then within no time he put it in, it didn't hurt but i felt it more this time. When we moved positions for doggy he got really into it, whilst I struggled to keep in rhythm. He told me to relax whilst he did all the work which I did do. I felt like he mostly concentrated on getting himself off tbh and I was very disappointed that it ended so quickly.

I rolled over and tried to get some sleep whilst he tried to hug and kiss me. He leaned on me at one point and I told him to get off because I was in agony down there. He apologised for it and asked if he was a little too rough. I think he kind of forgot that I'm inexperienced. I kinda dragged myself around all morning and couldn't even go to the toilet because it hurt. I told him I thought we had sex too quickly and should of done more foreplay.
I still can't get over how self centred he was during though, I know it's my second time but shouldn't be be trying to get me to orgasm?

I've never been called 'basic' before, how exciting...

Non-basic women only in this Beemer A virgin like me won't settle for less!

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I love how she says no ****bois when she's a basic thot herself

From what I've heard speaking to my girl mates is that women don't generally enjoy sex in the same manner as men straight away. I've known girls who loved it straight away, some who didn't enjoy it until a year or two of having it, some only with certain people, some only 'after' certain people. I've even known some who never really enjoyed it, which is almost non-existent with men.

FYI concerning the female orgasm, if he's relatively inexperienced himself he probably won't be capable of making you orgasm the first time. Female orgasms are notoriously individualised. What works for one girl can be a complete turnoff for another. They can also in some cases be extremely time consuming, while I've known some girls who can in 2 mins others can take over an hour inc foreplay (I knew one who could in 20 seconds, but that was only if she did it ). Let him know what you like and 'direct him' if you want to try to orgasm, this can be as simple as you choosing positions or leading him places etc.

However my advice would be not to worry, the majority of girls I've spoken to didn't massively enjoy it the first few times. That being said if you feel like he was concentrating too much on himself just have a quiet chat with him Most likely it's a simple miscommunication, it also doesn't help that most guys watch porn so what they 'think' women want would be rather different to what they actually want, probably the main reason he chose doggy.

Good sex life. I'm jealous! xx

Tbh you just need some practice and better partners! Next time your in that situation don't have sex! Do foreplay instead its more enticing and creates so much anticipation that you'll both want it more but that doesn't mean you should do it by all means if your feeling it then **** your brains out. Sex is great fun but most of the time the important part about what makes it fun is your partner. If they are more in to it than you then just stop because it won't be fun at all like you've just experience.

I think must guys want their partner to have more or at least as much fun as them. Perhaps the condom made him think you wanted to get on with it. Sex isn't always good even in established relationships. Talk about it and repeat your first experience.

Lmao. A guy once asked me if I came (as if he wouldn't have noticed it lmao) and then when I said no, he told me I didn't need to be so rude.