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My step-mom is my teacher

So basically my dad told me he got a new girlfriend and asked me if I was ok with it even if it was a little awkward and I said yes.Later he took me to dinner to meet her and it was my teach for Social Studies and I thought it was awkward but she was a nice teacher so I thought it would all work out.I only saw her at school so it wasn't much different.

About 2 months later she moved in with us and that's when it all got awkward. I will be honest I was probably mean to her sometimes but I felt like she was equally as mean to me.She would get mad at me for no reason and she always tried to take control.My dad just always sided with her.

Whenever I would go to school I hated goes to ss because I knew I would have to see her.I always felt like she was targeting me in class and calling on me when I never knew the answers. I was pretty sure everyone in that class already knew because I did tell some people.Sometimes in class she would get mad at me because I didnt have my homework done and she would send me out to the hall and it was so awkward because she would yell Infront of the whole class.When she would later come out in the hall she would give me a lecture about how she doesn't like my attitude and stuff and then I would go in class.

About 5 months later my dad sat me down and her kid and they told us she was pregnant.I was so mad I got up and let the house and I went to a Friends house nearby.I told my mom where I was so no one had to worry but I stayed there and I didn't go back home that day.

When it was the next day I knew I couldn't ditch because then I would have to have a detention with her and that is longer than the class anyway.I came in at the last moment and she looked at me after taking attendance and told me to come in the hall she talked to me about why I left and I didn't say anything and I said I don't want to talk about this and she said ok but we will talk tonight and that's basically what's happened so far and my life isn't so great.
What do I do to make life not so hard?
(edited 7 years ago)

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why don't u ask to move class
Please use paragraphs..
i swear u can request separate classes if ur family is in the class
u hav a good reason to move class anyway, tell the headmaster that it is unfair on u and the others
Give her a clip round the ear hole.
Poor teacher.
(edited 7 years ago)
Original post by Bunnyhopper
So basically my dad told me he got a new girlfriend and asked me if I was ok with it even if it was a little awkward and I said yes.Later he took me to dinner to meet her and it was my teach for Social Studies and I thought it was awkward but she was a nice teacher so I thought it would all work out.I only saw her at school so it wasn't much different but about 2 months later she moved in with us and that's when it all got awkward. I will be honest I was probably mean to her sometimes but I felt like she was equally as mean to me.She would get mad at me for no reason and she always tried to take control.My dad just always sided with her.Whenever I would go to school I hated goes to ss because I knew I would have to see her.I always felt like she was targeting me in class and calling on me when I never knew the answers. I was pretty sure everyone in that class already knew because I did tell some people.Sometimes in class she would get mad at me because I didnt have my homework done and she would send me out to the hall and it was so awkward because she would yell Infront of the whole class.When she would later come out in the hall she would give me a lecture about how she doesn't like my attitude and stuff and then I would go in class.About 8 months later my dad sat me down and her kid and they told us she was pregnant.I was so mad I got up and let the house and I went to a Friends house nearby.I told my mom where I was so no one had to worry but I stayed there and I didn't go back home that day.When it was the next day I knew I couldn't ditch because then I would have to have a detention with her and that is longer than the class anyway.I came in at the last moment and she looked at me after taking attendance and told me to come in the hall she talked to me about why I left and I didn't say anything and I said I don't want to talk about this and she said ok but we will talk tonight and that's basically what's happened so far and my life isn't so great


"About 8 months later my dad sat me down and her kid"
Her child is also living with you?
How far along is she pregnant.
Tbh I would be FURIOUS but if she makes your dad happy then you need to accept it.

On the other hand if they get married and then divorce/ or split up you will have to scold your dad for his decisions that have effected you.

Is this GCSE sociology? sounds like a waste of time tbh, she could help you with work tho.... This is really awkward if you're still in contact with your mother.

Could you not live with your mother?
(edited 7 years ago)
Reply 7
Original post by 999tigger
Poor teacher.


Why poor teacher?
Reply 8
Update: I asked my dad if I can change my class with her and I explained the reasons why he said he needs to think about it.Later my step-mom and my dad came up to me asked asked why then my step-mom got mad because I wanted to and she basically said if I participated in class and got my homework done class wouldn't be so miserable
Original post by Bunnyhopper
Update: I asked my dad if I can change my class with her and I explained the reasons why he said he needs to think about it.Later my step-mom and my dad came up to me asked asked why then my step-mom got mad because I wanted to and she basically said if I participated in class and got my homework done class wouldn't be so miserable


Don't back down, stand and fight, show her who's boss. Push forward for that move.
Reply 10
Thanks guys I really appreciate all of this!
Reply 11
Update: So my step-mom was gone from school yesterday because of a meeting or something and when she got back today she got mad at the class because we were disrespecting the sub but really it was just this one girl.I was pretty sure though that she thought it was all me.So I was just listening to her talk and I said one thing to my friend and my step-mom was like go out to the hall and I said why and she said because you are being disrespectful and I asked you to go to the hall.I said that i wasn't even doing anything and she was like go to the hall or go to the office because i'm pretty sure you were one of the people that was being disrespectful to the sub yesterday even though I wasn't.
Reply 12
Update: So lately everything has been fine but she is getting moody because she's pregnant honestly I'm just not even talking to her she jusy makes me so mad all the time.
That tends to happen to pregnant women. They begin to feel more emotional than before.
Reply 14
Update:You guys aren't going to believe this I think I'm getting suspended because of my freaking stepmom! And it's not like a normal suspension I have to sit in her room the whole day!! I don't know what to do this is terrible my dad will freak on me when he finds out!What do I do?!?
Original post by Bunnyhopper
Update:You guys aren't going to believe this I think I'm getting suspended because of my freaking stepmom! And it's not like a normal suspension I have to sit in her room the whole day!! I don't know what to do this is terrible my dad will freak on me when he finds out!What do I do?!?


I am not reading the thread again and cna only vaguely remember it. I dont think you came off too well.

You cna make a complaint to the headmaster that there is a conflict of interest going on considering she is your step parent and if you are suspended or punished or she had soemthing to do with it then its a comflict of interests that she should carry out the punishment. If you are to have detention then it should be with another teacher.
Now that is some ****ed-up porno storyline right there.
Ask for a transfer
Reply 18
Original post by yudothis
Now that is some ****ed-up porno storyline right there.


I really wish it was fake my friend
Reply 19
Update: Omg today was the funniest thing so I was working on my stuff and my stepmom Yas yelling at someone and I was like inside voice ..... (Her name) and she was like (my name) do you want to stay in my class and I was like no not really and I got up and left

Also guys tomorrow I'm talking to the principle I will update tomorrow on what went down.

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