She is cheating on me?

I don't get why she felt nervous when taking a contraceptive pill, nor do I understand why she lied to you in the first place when it's a common thing to use contraception even if you also use a condom.

If your instinct is telling you that she's hiding something, she probably is. The whole thing seems sketchy. Maybe she has some health problems she doesn't want to talk about.

I agree, we are both uni students. We are both adults. There is no need to act all sneaky.

And yeah it's the lie, and the way she got all nervous when I asked her.

Also I didn't know many girls used contraception when having protected sex?

I guess I will follow my gut instinct on this one, and dump her.

I agree, we are both uni students. We are both adults. There is no need to act all sneaky.

And yeah it's the lie, and the way she got all nervous when I asked her.

Also I didn't know many girls used contraception when having protected sex?

I guess I will follow my gut instinct on this one, and dump her.

I mean it's good to use contraception just to be safe, that's not something to be complained about, it's just the fact that with you two being adults, you shouldn't really be hiding normal things like this one.

You'll just simply dump her without asking her anything, maybe she has an explanation..

Edit: I meant is it a serious relationship?

We haven't had the BF and Gf talk, but we have asked each other at the start are we dating other people. I said no.

I doubt she will ever explain, unless I bring it up. And even then she may lie

It seems to me like you don't care too much about the relationship if you can end it so easily without trying to make it work, but it's your decision.

She might be using the pill because of problems with her periods. I do.

Maybe she didn't want to admit using the pill to you? My gf in school was the same, I knew she took it, but when it was time for her to take it she became all weird. Once, she had set a reminder on her phone for it, it reminded her to take it, and I heard it and was like "what's that" and she was all weird and sneaky about it...

Plenty of people use double protection. imo youve jumped to conclusions. You should at least have a chat with her, but youve made your mind up it seems.

I just don't know how else to bring it up, and what happens if she is lying again.

It's like when you ask your self does that boy/girl like me. You always go with your gut instinct.

If you saw the way she got all nervous and lied, you would also have a similar feeling

Chances are she is probably telling you the truth about the pill, think you are being a bit paranoid.

lol uhoh

Just tell her what's bothering you, tell her that she gave you reasons to feel like she's not being honest with you and you'd appreciate if she'd be sincere in this relationship.

I guess I will follow my gut instinct on this one, and dump her.

Am I right to be suspicious?

Dating a girl, about 2 months. We have sex on a regular basis.

Last night, she was at my place. Everything was normal. She gets up and goes to her bag. She has a pill and takes it down.

I would think nothing off it, but it's the way she looked. She kept looking if I was looking.

I keep looking at her, then she gets all nervous. So I question her.

She says they are just painkillers. I can tell she is lying. Then she says it is contraception.

I ask why? (I also us a condom, no matter what).

She then says how she gets really bad period pains, so the doctor says take them.

I make an excuse and she leaves my house. She called me this morning,just general small talk.

But I just feel she is having sex with another guy. It's just the way she reacted.