Having an issue with a client at work.
main incidents
- asked to drive me on a weekend trip away (a week after we met), when I said no, found me later and repeated the offer saying he really wanted to go together
- asked if I was married
- waited outside my workplace in the morning to tell me he couldn't stop thinking about me + offered to end their affiliation with my workplace so we could be together
- followed me out of work (I was about 500m down the road + he ran after me) to try and talk to me, dunno what he wanted to say as I refused to speak to him but had to tell him 4x to go away before he stopped following me
Also smaller things e.g. winking at me, tapping my arm rather than speaking to me, fetching things for me (without me asking or even mentioning needing it), offering to carry things, asking me to repeat something as he 'liked how I said it', waiting til other people left then calling me back into the room (I pretended not to hear), asking if we could pair up when I was not involved in activity. He also asked me if I think 'bigger or smaller is better' - no idea if this was meant in the way I'm concerned it was, I asked what he was talking about and he muttered so that other staff couldn't hear.
I also think I once saw him while out walking (it was dark)... it's not a huge place but it's still a big coincidence and freaked me out a bit.
My workplace say they will stop allowing him to use the service if anything else happens and have spoken to him (although more happened after they spoke to him) so I'm thinking that will probably happen soon as all this has been over maybe 3 weeks. Should I be worried about after that though? Is it likely to continue? I feel like I'm overreacting but I am genuinely worried that he just doesn't seem to understand rejection.