I do think it's a bit pathetic to listen to your guy friends, I could never imagine liking something who wasn't either a blood relative or a lover enough to really care about their opinions.

Reply 25

unillama

that he should just leave me

Original post by Pikachū

What do his friends think?

Reply 26

unillama

i knw but we have had 3 long years and well i just really miss it tbf

Original post by l'etranger

I do think it's a bit pathetic to listen to your guy friends, I could never imagine liking something who wasn't either a blood relative or a lover enough to really care about their opinions.

Reply 27

Pikachū

Original post by unillama

that he should just leave me

That's quite sad.

Reply 28

unillama

and i feel like **** rn

Original post by Pikachū

That's quite sad.

Reply 29

Pikachū

Original post by unillama

and i feel like **** rn

I don't know why people do that actually, I've never questioned my friends about their choice nor have they questioned me. Some people are just nosey I guess.

Can't give any advice but hope you feel better soon. :smile:

Reply 30

rogueone

Masturbate 10 ten times a day.

Reply 31

username2324383

find someone new

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Reply 32

unillama

dead!@trapking

Original post by rogueone

Masturbate 10 ten times a day.

Reply 33

trapking

Original post by unillama

dead!@trapking

(edited 7 years ago)

Reply 34

Tootles

Original post by unillama

just state...

Cry-****.

Reply 35

LauraMayden1

Realise that you two weren't meant to be, and it's not a matter of 'if this happened or if he did this, it would've worked out'. It just means you're meant to be with someone else. Don't dwell on what could have been, accept what is.

Look at the reasons for you breaking up with him; if they were valid and couldn't/wouldn't have been resolved, then you'll know you've made the right decision to move forward in life. This should eliminate any regrets.

Once you've gotten rid of regrets and hope, all that's left is sorrow. Unfortunately, this usually requires time, but certain factors can certainly speed up the process. Talk to friends and family, find a new hobby, become more self aware. The last is my favourite, because the more you know yourself, the more you know what you want in life, and you may realise that he's actually entirely not right for you. It allows you to grow as a person, and that's what I believe is moving forward in life.

Good luck :smile:

Reply 36

unillama

Original post by LauraMayden1

yeah thanks but what we broke up over is something so petite that you'd probably want to laugh and that why i dont really want to tell anyone

Reply 37

unillama

thats unhealthy

Original post by rogueone

Masturbate 10 ten times a day.

Reply 38

elmosandy

move on, get over it, and be happy dont go rushing into rebunds - they dont work and it not fair really and glo up.

Forget the person and if he move to you again tell him to jump.

Reply 39

LauraMayden1

Original post by unillama

yeah thanks but what we broke up over is something so petite that you'd probably want to laugh and that why i dont really want to tell anyone

I thought you broke up because he cared about what others thought and that was affecting your relationship? I'd say that's a legitimate reason, provided he wasn't willing to change that.