My mother called me fat!

have you ever been fat?
no, i don't think so..cos you don't seem to understand the pain.

You have proved her wrong tbh by being able to do the work despite what she thinks of your body. I know you said that you are busy alot of the days and this is a suggestion a change in diet may help and also a quick 20 mins bodyweight exercises before you leave for work may help.

My mother used to speak about a girl and asked to show her fb pictures.
I showed my mother and my mother said, "You are better than her as she is very fat."

I felt that this is too much and beyond the limit! I undergo too many stresses in my life.

My mother asks me to watch my one and half year old nephew plus look after the cleaning of the house.
This is too much because I go to classes on Sundays.
In addition, I go to the school internship here where i live early morning as the school starts at half past seven and from their I take a tuk and go to the office where I actually work. My life is very busy and tight. The actual job where i work ends at 10pm in the night. I feel tired after work.

I am doing all this for the sake my boyfriend's mother requires me to have this if i need to become her daughter in law.

I shouted at my mother for calling me fat and she was like i am the fat out of those in our family. I feel really bad! [angry]

Are you offending me as well?

Only if you find not decaying quickly after being buried offensive.

Only if you find not decaying quickly after being buried offensive.

That makes no sense, it's easy to be fat and hard to be slim?

Whilst it's a bit rude of your mum to say perhaps she just wants you to be healthy.

Who gives a f*ck?

Prove her wrong instead of letting words get to you! GO GIRL!

Have you got anything constructive/nice to add to the thread?

as if my mum knows my bmi

why does it make no sense? it is easy to become slim?

as if my mum knows my bmi

why does it make no sense? it is easy to become slim?

Yes, the Germans have invented a way to increase the rate of decay of fat dead people by pumping air into the coffins.

So if you are fat and die and want to be buried, try to do it in Germany.

OP how much do you actually weigh and what's your height?

also how old are you

You implied that the other person was not fat and therefore couldn't understand your pain. It is harder to be slim then it is to be fat, so i'm not sure what pain you are talking about. People aren't just slim by chance, it's down to discipline most of the time.

Also it's not easy to lose weight, but it is simple.

good thing to ask..i dont know my weight but my height is 5.6 feet and i'm 20 years old.

My mother used to speak about a girl and asked to show her fb pictures.
I showed my mother and my mother said, "You are better than her as she is very fat."

I felt that this is too much and beyond the limit! I undergo too many stresses in my life.

My mother asks me to watch my one and half year old nephew plus look after the cleaning of the house.
This is too much because I go to classes on Sundays.
In addition, I go to the school internship here where i live early morning as the school starts at half past seven and from their I take a tuk and go to the office where I actually work. My life is very busy and tight. The actual job where i work ends at 10pm in the night. I feel tired after work.

I am doing all this for the sake my boyfriend's mother requires me to have this if i need to become her daughter in law.

I shouted at my mother for calling me fat and she was like i am the fat out of those in our family. I feel really bad! [angry]

5.6 feet as in 5 foot 6 inches?