23 going on 24 and have never had a girlfriend

I'll be 24 soon, plus I'm still a virgin! I feel so depressed about it. I see loads of people in relationships at my age and it makes me feel like ****. So what shall I do? Would i get rejected because of it? Is it a red flag? Please give me some advice.

Reply 1

username1726117

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What do you do to meet girls/get dates? :smile:

Reply 2

LeTamoul

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Original post by Matty2993

I'll be 24 soon, plus I'm still a virgin! I feel so depressed about it. I see loads of people in relationships at my age and it makes me feel like ****. So what shall I do? Would i get rejected because of it? Is it a red flag? Please give me some advice.

Hey it's okay man , I'm 20 years old and never had a girlfriend because of my culture. Enjoy life man, travel to other countries,study and go to the gym it will make you happy.

Reply 3

<3Music

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If you get rejected over it then she clearly isn't right for you, if a girl likes you it won't be a problem.

Put yourself out there a bit more, set yourself a goal, Eg, interact with at least one stranger a day. Stop trying to hard to actively seek a relationship, the best ones usually happen when you're aren't looking.

Reply 4

agrew

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Be more social, if you're in uni try to attend different events (not only those related to drinking).

Reply 5

frozen_fire

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Original post by Matty2993

I'll be 24 soon, plus I'm still a virgin! I feel so depressed about it. I see loads of people in relationships at my age and it makes me feel like ****. So what shall I do? Would i get rejected because of it? Is it a red flag? Please give me some advice.

I've heard lots of people give advice on this sort of thread before and the usual thing that comes up is 'self-improvement'. Of course you can put yourself out there more socially, go to the gym etc but from my experience, none of those things will directly get you a girlfriend. In fact it's all about mindset plus a bit of luck!

Have you asked many girls out before? If the answer is yes and you've been rejected, then that's actually a good starting point. To ask a girl out takes confidence. Perhaps you haven't met the right person yet- someone who is compatible for you. The most important thing is not to become bitter about this. There is someone out there for everyone.

Reply 6

Tootles

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Original post by Matty2993

I'll be 24 soon, plus I'm still a virgin! I feel so depressed about it. I see loads of people in relationships at my age and it makes me feel like ****. So what shall I do? Would i get rejected because of it? Is it a red flag? Please give me some advice.

Sex and women aren't all they're cracked up to be.

Reply 7

The Good Doctor

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I can understand why it gets you down, but it is what it is and there is no point worrying about it. I know plenty of people that have lost their virginity at about your age, some even older and not by design. You're not the only one.

Reply 8

Matty2993

OP

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Original post by frozen_fire

I've heard lots of people give advice on this sort of thread before and the usual thing that comes up is 'self-improvement'. Of course you can put yourself out there more socially, go to the gym etc but from my experience, none of those things will directly get you a girlfriend. In fact it's all about mindset plus a bit of luck!

Have you asked many girls out before? If the answer is yes and you've been rejected, then that's actually a good starting point. To ask a girl out takes confidence. Perhaps you haven't met the right person yet- someone who is compatible for you. The most important thing is not to become bitter about this. There is someone out there for everyone.

Yeah I have asked a few girls out in the past but I've got hardly anywhere. I feel like such an odd ball. 😩

23 going on 24 and have never had a girlfriend

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