What are the pros and cons of dating you?
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Pros:
Caring
Quirky
Witty
Passionate
Loyal
Honest
Will take good photos of you
Know about lots of random ****
(INTP traits)
Cons:
Geeky (could be a pro for some)
Catastrophically disorganised
Impulsive
Lonely
Uncompromising
Can be too logical and unfeeling
Very high inhibitions
Will debate *everything*
I'm "like a dog with a bone" (dad never stops reminding me)
(INTP traits)
Caring
Quirky
Witty
Passionate
Loyal
Honest
Will take good photos of you
Know about lots of random ****
(INTP traits)
Cons:
Geeky (could be a pro for some)
Catastrophically disorganised
Impulsive
Lonely
Uncompromising
Can be too logical and unfeeling
Very high inhibitions
Will debate *everything*
I'm "like a dog with a bone" (dad never stops reminding me)
(INTP traits)
Original post by SassKing13
What do you mean by silly? You're awesome Cheese 
A lot of people on TSR think so 
Cons
You might eat them
A lot of people on TSR think so Cons
You might eat them
I am just extremely silly omg
They are also silly, I have brain washed them Original post by UWS
Who says you're not attractive? I'll sort them out 
French is love, French is life, what's not to like?
French is love, French is life, what's not to like?
Me
and all of my family 
Ermmm me?
You are right there
Original post by XOR_
Those are pros
I saw you skip Doctor Who
I SAW IT
Pros:
Caring
Loyal
Not too picky
Can make you laugh if you're in the same sort of things I am, also a good sense of humour (Could be a con as I literally laugh at everything and people are like, "why are you laughing/smiling all the time?")
Intelligent
Maybe others? Idk.
Cons
I feel like I'm a bit insensitive, sometimes I feel sometimes that people are just making a huge fuss over nothing and it has caused me some troubles in the past
Somewhat crazy and weird
Quite dominating
My music taste (some people might like it but majority of the people I've talked to just don't like it one bit haha).
Caring
Loyal
Not too picky
Can make you laugh if you're in the same sort of things I am, also a good sense of humour (Could be a con as I literally laugh at everything and people are like, "why are you laughing/smiling all the time?")
Intelligent
Maybe others? Idk.
Cons
I feel like I'm a bit insensitive, sometimes I feel sometimes that people are just making a huge fuss over nothing and it has caused me some troubles in the past
Somewhat crazy and weird
Quite dominating
My music taste (some people might like it but majority of the people I've talked to just don't like it one bit haha).
Original post by CheeseIsVeg
I am just extremely silly omg
They are also silly, I have brain washed them
Me and all of my family
Ermmm me?
You are right there
I saw you skip Doctor Who
I SAW IT
They are also silly, I have brain washed them Me
and all of my family Ermmm me?
You are right there
I saw you skip Doctor Who
I SAW IT
I still don't know what you mean
If you mean 'weird', I think that's a good thing 
Shhh Cheese, you're awesome
Original post by SassKing13
I still don't know what you mean If you mean 'weird', I think that's a good thing
Shhh Cheese, you're awesome
If you mean 'weird', I think that's a good thing Shhh Cheese, you're awesome
A cross between stupidity, bad jokes, being a bit immature and overusing "lol" 
Oh and that, I am extremely strange Okay whatever
Original post by CheeseIsVeg A cross between stupidity, bad jokes, being a bit immature and overusing "lol" Oh and that, I am extremely strange
Okay whatever
A cross between stupidity, bad jokes, being a bit immature and overusing "lol" Oh and that, I am extremely strange Okay whatever
Great, end of conversation and we have established The Cheese is awesome
Pros: loyal, caring, loves really intensely, affectionate, always willing to do anything that makes your life a little bit easier, witty, able to take a joke, will look after when you're ill/sad
Cons: sensitive, emotional, can be pessimistic
Cons: sensitive, emotional, can be pessimistic
(edited 7 years ago)
Original post by SassKing13
Great, end of conversation and we have established The Cheese is awesome
*grate
Tbh I warned you
Original post by CheeseIsVeg
Me and all of my family
Ermmm me?
You are right there
Me
and all of my family Ermmm me?
You are right there
No
You are wrong
Let's go to France
Original post by UWS
No
You are wrong
Let's go to France
You are wrong
Let's go to France
I am never wrong
(Apart from all the time
) yuss pls can we 
Original post by CheeseIsVeg
I am never wrong
(Apart from all the time)
yuss pls can we
(Apart from all the time
) yuss pls can we That is true, except for the cons you've listed earlier
Of course
Where do you want to go?
Original post by UWS
That is true, except for the cons you've listed earlier
Of course
Where do you want to go?
Of course
Where do you want to go?
Yay
Well erm I have a friend in Nice
Original post by Conkerr
Pros : serious/kind guy, decent and stable job
Cons : different from most other guys, not particularly handsome
Cons : different from most other guys, not particularly handsome
You are a really cool guy from what I know mate
Hope everything's going well with you too
@UWS
Hmmm.....pros of dating me, umm
Pros:
-People say im kind and caring.
-I will look after you, even when you are ill and that.
-I can cook (most people say a way to a mans heart is via food so yep)
Now for the easy bit...
Cons:
-I have a dry sense of hummer
-I love and crave cuddles and hugs and kisses (lacked comfort as a kid, thats my excuse and im sticking to it)
-I can be a emotional mess at times
-I have a past that was horrible and affects me now.
-I cry alot.
-I think im ugly as heck.
-I overthink.
Hmmm.....pros of dating me, umm
Pros:
-People say im kind and caring.
-I will look after you, even when you are ill and that.
-I can cook (most people say a way to a mans heart is via food so yep)
Now for the easy bit...
Cons:
-I have a dry sense of hummer
-I love and crave cuddles and hugs and kisses
(lacked comfort as a kid, thats my excuse and im sticking to it)-I can be a emotional mess at times
-I have a past that was horrible and affects me now.
-I cry alot.
-I think im ugly as heck.
-I overthink.
Original post by Anonymous
@UWS
Hmmm.....pros of dating me, umm
Pros:
-People say im kind and caring.
-I will look after you, even when you are ill and that.
-I can cook (most people say a way to a mans heart is via food so yep)
Now for the easy bit...
Cons:
-I have a dry sense of hummer
-I love and crave cuddles and hugs and kisses (lacked comfort as a kid, thats my excuse and im sticking to it)
-I can be a emotional mess at times
-I have a past that was horrible and affects me now.
-I cry alot.
-I think im ugly as heck.
-I overthink.
Hmmm.....pros of dating me, umm
Pros:
-People say im kind and caring.
-I will look after you, even when you are ill and that.
-I can cook (most people say a way to a mans heart is via food so yep)
Now for the easy bit...
Cons:
-I have a dry sense of hummer
-I love and crave cuddles and hugs and kisses
(lacked comfort as a kid, thats my excuse and im sticking to it)-I can be a emotional mess at times
-I have a past that was horrible and affects me now.
-I cry alot.
-I think im ugly as heck.
-I overthink.
Omg Anonymous, you tagged me
If only I knew who you were
I love food.
And i'm sure you're not ugly at all
Ooo this is an interesting thread actually. I'm gonna be totally honest here.
Cons -
I'm really judgmental and if you start gaining a significant amount of weight for no obvious external factor, but just because you don't care anymore, we're gonna have a problem. Or if you just decide to get a septum piercing. Nope. Not happening. I feel you have a duty to look good for you partner and yes, if that means avoiding some style options, so be it.
On the judgmental thing I have a tendency to really intensely analyse everything a friend does. And so if you try to get consoling from me I might end up psychologically grilling you instead. I mean, I'll try and comfort you too of course but, it might not be what you are looking for at the time and if you are not an introspective person and an intellectual one you probs won't enjoy the grilling.
I don't go out to bars/clubs.
I don't take selfies.
I don't -really- watch movies on my own - I will with you, but I won't get the cultural references lol and there will be a hell of a lot of catching up to do.
I still live at home.
I'm a hopeless romantic so if you find hand-written letters, bouquets of flowers, long-walks at night alone, picnics in the park and the sort cringe-worthy, **** you.
On the above I also am rather blunt with my opinions and very strong opinioned. I cannot tolerate those who take scripture to be particularly relevant to their belief in God or morals. Or super PC politics. Definitely can't stand the feminist stuck-up-themselves, constantly a victim, sort of girls...
Fairly needy for a guy. Weekly dates are a thing that will persist for months before we swap to bi-weekly and choose to just chill with one another at home instead when we meet.
I'm only 165cm tall. So really short for a guy (5'5).
Pros -
A lot of the cons if you are the right person!
I won't just comfort you with hugs and talk of sweet nothings. I will actively try to get you to change your life for the better.
I'm a good listener and very empathetic.
Fairly needy for a guy. Weekly dates are a thing that will persist for months before we swap to bi-weekly and choose to just chill with one another at home instead when we meet.
I'm a hopeless romantic! See cons.
I give great hugs, great cuddles and pretty decent kisses.
I'm objectively good in bed and very sexually versatile. Also very sexually open minded so unless your kink is super extreme (blood or gross bodily fluids) I'll probably be able and willing to help you with it and... you'll be a very happy lady that night before your cuddles.
I'm in shape, work as a doorman and am an amateur MMA fighter. If that sort of man turns you on or you like rough sex... Well. Big pro there
I'm good at saving money and I'm not afraid of pampering a girl that is worth it. I also like PDA and am perfectly content being proud of my girl. She's my baby so why wouldn't I be?
I'm shameless, not in a weird sexual sense, but just in what I say or do. I'll sing around you, dance around you. Flutter around like a butterfly, be honest with you, tell you my woes etc. And getting to that stage will only take a month rather than 10years... A huge pro imo. I adore people like that myself. I think it is super important to having a good relationship - you need that honest communication and comfort when around one another.
Cons -
I'm really judgmental and if you start gaining a significant amount of weight for no obvious external factor, but just because you don't care anymore, we're gonna have a problem. Or if you just decide to get a septum piercing. Nope. Not happening. I feel you have a duty to look good for you partner and yes, if that means avoiding some style options, so be it.
On the judgmental thing I have a tendency to really intensely analyse everything a friend does. And so if you try to get consoling from me I might end up psychologically grilling you instead. I mean, I'll try and comfort you too of course but, it might not be what you are looking for at the time and if you are not an introspective person and an intellectual one you probs won't enjoy the grilling.
I don't go out to bars/clubs.
I don't take selfies.
I don't -really- watch movies on my own - I will with you, but I won't get the cultural references lol and there will be a hell of a lot of catching up to do.
I still live at home.
I'm a hopeless romantic so if you find hand-written letters, bouquets of flowers, long-walks at night alone, picnics in the park and the sort cringe-worthy, **** you.
On the above I also am rather blunt with my opinions and very strong opinioned. I cannot tolerate those who take scripture to be particularly relevant to their belief in God or morals. Or super PC politics. Definitely can't stand the feminist stuck-up-themselves, constantly a victim, sort of girls...
Fairly needy for a guy. Weekly dates are a thing that will persist for months before we swap to bi-weekly and choose to just chill with one another at home instead when we meet.
I'm only 165cm tall. So really short for a guy (5'5).
Pros -
A lot of the cons if you are the right person!
I won't just comfort you with hugs and talk of sweet nothings. I will actively try to get you to change your life for the better.
I'm a good listener and very empathetic.
Fairly needy for a guy. Weekly dates are a thing that will persist for months before we swap to bi-weekly and choose to just chill with one another at home instead when we meet.
I'm a hopeless romantic! See cons.
I give great hugs, great cuddles and pretty decent kisses.
I'm objectively good in bed and very sexually versatile. Also very sexually open minded so unless your kink is super extreme (blood or gross bodily fluids) I'll probably be able and willing to help you with it and... you'll be a very happy lady that night before your cuddles.
I'm in shape, work as a doorman and am an amateur MMA fighter. If that sort of man turns you on or you like rough sex... Well. Big pro there
I'm good at saving money and I'm not afraid of pampering a girl that is worth it. I also like PDA and am perfectly content being proud of my girl. She's my baby so why wouldn't I be?
I'm shameless, not in a weird sexual sense, but just in what I say or do. I'll sing around you, dance around you. Flutter around like a butterfly, be honest with you, tell you my woes etc. And getting to that stage will only take a month rather than 10years... A huge pro imo. I adore people like that myself. I think it is super important to having a good relationship - you need that honest communication and comfort when around one another.
(edited 7 years ago)
Original post by UWS
Omg Anonymous, you tagged me
If only I knew who you were
I love food.
And i'm sure you're not ugly at all
If only I knew who you were
I love food.
And i'm sure you're not ugly at all
Why omg? Yea much easier to tag than quote the OP
You might know me lol
Most guys do, never known a guy not too.
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