Top reasons why boys cannot find a girlfriend

Original post by Nottie

None of my boyfriend's friends have a girlfriend and they are feeling quite bad about it. Looking at them I'd say:
1. Being scared of girls (not approaching them, not making eye contact even when the girl initiated)
2. Thinking girls are their properties and should sleep with them cause things (some literally made me feel as if they expected me to offer myself to them)
3. Bad personality (doing drugs, not having any hobbies etc)

1. Girls NEVER initiate
2. No comments
3. Good personality DOES NOT guarantee anything at all

Reply 85

Original post by Supernova91

1. Bad attitude
2. Self righteous
3. Dry

'Hey how are u' wtf we meant to do that this chit chat. :redface:

what exactly is wrong with greeting you and asking how you are?

Reply 86

Original post by Zargabaath

4. his mum is making him get an arranged marriage :lol:

Personally I would prefer that to living miserable life with lots of credits, mortgage, brainwashing and cheating wife and couple of screaming children...

Reply 87

Zargabaath

Original post by Recont

Personally I would prefer that to living miserable life with lots of credits, mortgage, brainwashing and cheating wife and couple of screaming children...

pretty sure a wife that married you without ever having feelings toward you would lead to more misery and higher instances of cheating then one who loved you at some point :K:

And arranged marriages still result in kids and mortgages :lol:

Reply 88

Original post by hezzlington

what exactly is wrong with greeting you and asking how you are?

Nothing

but every ****er does it so it's not the most eye catching opening line !

Reply 89

Original post by hezzlington

Marie Curie
Her daughter
Rosalind Franklin
Grace Hopper
Dian Fossey

Curie's daughter-no info who contributed more, she or her husband
Curie-agree
Franklin-agree
Rest-studies of gorillas (ehhmm so what?) and contribution to DNA and X-ray but Nobel prize went to completely other people.

Not convincing. Keep googling.

Reply 90

Original post by Supernova91

Nothing

but every ****er does it so it's not the most eye catching opening line !

what are your 'opening lines'

Reply 91

Original post by Zargabaath

pretty sure a wife that married you without ever having feelings toward you would lead to more misery and higher instances of cheating then one who loved you at some point :K:

And arranged marriages still result in kids and mortgages :lol:

No feelings is a lot better-clean, cook and do whatever you like.

Arranged-means no initiative. How passive people can have children or mortgages?

Reply 92

Original post by hezzlington

what are your 'opening lines'

I'm less into small talk are more into talking about subjects of interest. Usually will start with a common connection and go from there :smile:

Reply 93

Original post by Recont

What exactly am I supposed to be convincing you of? If you want to see the achievements of women in science, google yourself. There are plenty.

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Original post by Supernova91

I'm less into small talk are more into talking about subjects of interest. Usually will start with a common connection and go from there :smile:

so when you meet a guy in person, what is the very first thing you say to them?

Reply 95

Original post by hezzlington

so when you meet a guy in person, what is the very first thing you say to them?

In what kind of scenario ?

Reply 96

Rakas21

For the average male the main thing that prevents them from getting a girl is their own fear of rejection and generally not putting themselves out there or taking advantage of opportunities.

Reply 97

Original post by Supernova91

In what kind of scenario ?

I met up with a girl earlier today for coffee and the very first thing I said was "Hey, how's it going?" and that's always been what I say or some variation of. I get that the kids these days have a whole different set of 'rules' for online etiquette, but it baffles me that 'Hey, how are you' could be considered dry.

Reply 98

Original post by hezzlington

What exactly am I supposed to be convincing you of? If you want to see the achievements of women in science, google yourself. There are plenty.

Who built house you are living in? Who built, invented and constantly improves car that you drive? Who planned cities, created wheel, electricity, airplanes, firefights, top doctors etc.? Even kitchen is dominated by men, any top cleaning service is provided by men. It is reality. If woman has a choice between being at home and working in 99% cases she would prefer staying at home, do washing and cleaning using gadgets that were created by men :smile:

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