Right so,
The past few months have been pretty strange for me. I became friends with a guy from work back in October. We became close, and connected straight away. In November we went on a few dates, and in December we decided to try a relationship. That relationship lasted 3 days, he ended with me after saying he had feelings for an ex girlfriend, and he moved on too soon from her. I was upset yes, but understood. He said that he needed time and then when he feels better he will try again with me. He then started talking to that girl again. But then they decided to end it completely and they stopped talking. I thought this would be good as i would have a chance again. But we still remained no more than best friends. Then a week or two ago, he started messaging that girl again. And she is very pushy, and doesn't like me being friends with him. He also has been meeting up with her lately behind my back, just saying he is "busy" to me. I know what he is up to, as Im one of his only friends. But again lately, me and him have got close like when we first became friends, and I have been meeting up with him a lot, and even going round his house. And yesterday we had sex, both oral and normal sex, but we still aren't together. And he hasn't said anything more about being in a relationship with me or the girl. I want a relationship with him so badly, and i want to ask him if he does see us getting back together, but i dont want to sound like im pushing things or being needy. I dont want to lose him. Does anyone have any advice on what i should do in this situation?
Thanks