What are your biggest turn offs on a first date?

What are things that people do on a first date that just make you get totally put off?

Got any stories to share?

Now I haven't been on a date myself (cue violins playing), but I'd say the following would put me off..

- Being late
- Texting and ignoring me

Discuss.

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Reply 1

username2908878

Being rude to the waiter ! :angry:

Reply 2

MissIntrov

No manners, definitely. Some people treat waiters like shite and on a date, that would be so embarrassing.

Also, being loud. Like, loud for no reason.

Reply 3

CleverSquirrel

when they're on their phone most of time- like put it aside for once!! some attention would be nice :colondollar:

being rude to waiters :rolleyes:

and please.....dont brag or show off- its so unattractive!

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Reply 4

TreeFellOnMe

God so many things, my standards are so narrow nowadays :frown:

(((((((((((((((((((((((((

Reply 5

username2705335

If he talks about an ex on the first date.

Reply 6

TeenRose29

Burping rlly loud and in my face, being rude to a waiter, being really late, talking about ex's. :redface:

Reply 7

Mustard-man

When I (as a man) have pay for more than 2 rounds of drinks without her even at least offering to buy one.

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Reply 8

Kravence

If she was to go out for a fag, I'd be gone before she gets back

Reply 9

lilynily

Original post by UWS

omg i went on a date a couple of weeks ago and the boy threw up in the cinema all over himself next to me

Reply 10

UWS

Original post by lilynily

omg i went on a date a couple of weeks ago and the boy threw up in the cinema all over himself next to me

Oh god.... Have you texted him since? :rofl:

Original post by Mustard-man

When I (as a man) have pay for more than 2 rounds of drinks without her even at least offering to buy one.

Gotta find out if she's just in it for the free drinks :lol:

Reply 11

lilynily

Original post by UWS

Oh god.... Have you texted him since? :rofl:

Gotta find out if she's just in it for the free drinks :lol:

Yeah i did, but turns out his the one that didn't like me :s-smilie:

I'm hoping it was just because he was traumatised from it

Reply 12

CleverSquirrel

dont...ever...interrupt me....no matter how 'funny' you think your joke is.... your input isnt needed when im trying to make a point :colonhash:

Reply 13

UWS

Original post by CleverSquirrel

dont...ever...interrupt me....no matter how 'funny' you think your joke is.... your input isnt needed when im trying to make a point :colonhash:

It's a habit of mine to interrupt but I always let the lady speak :h:

Reply 14

AperfectBalance

-Smoking is a instant leave for me vaping too
-Veggie/Vegan
- big political difference
- Peircing anything but earrings is a instant no.
- Expects me to pay for everything because I am a man
- No career prospects is a instant no
- I dont like lots of makeup, I prefer none.
- Overly feminine and immature
- Obsessed with Beauty and clothes and handbags ect.

Reply 15

CleverSquirrel

Original post by UWS

It's a habit of mine to interrupt but I always let the lady speak :h:

not cool

Reply 16

UWS

Original post by CleverSquirrel

not cool

It is an old habit :colondollar:

Reply 17

retro_turtles

When they can breathe urgh

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Reply 18

UWS

Original post by retro_turtles

When they can breathe urgh

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I hate that too lol

Original post by AperfectBalance

Yep, pretty much me. Not bothered about earrings though.

I also do like girls with minimal makeup :yep:

Original post by Reachin4TheStars

Burping rlly loud and in my face, being rude to a waiter, being really late, talking about ex's. :redface:

Oh yeah, ex talk is a big no-no.

Original post by Kravence

If she was to go out for a fag, I'd be gone before she gets back

*mic drop*

Reply 19

UWS

Original post by Supernova91

Being rude to the waiter ! :angry:

Has that actually happened to you?

Original post by MissIntrov

No manners, definitely. Some people treat waiters like shite and on a date, that would be so embarrassing.

Also, being loud. Like, loud for no reason.

The thing is I've never heard of people being rude to waiters on a date, this is a new thing? :lol:

Original post by CleverSquirrel

when they're on their phone most of time- like put it aside for once!! some attention would be nice :colondollar:

being rude to waiters :rolleyes:

and please.....dont brag or show off- its so unattractive!

Ahh that's something we can agree on then! It's rude when someone is texting and you wanna talk to them, sometimes my friends do it but on a date? It's bye Felicia :rofl:

(if that's her name)

Original post by TreeFellOnMe