Don't get married to someone you don't love, can you tell them you're not interested right now? That's as much else I can help, it's not an easy situation to be in, especially when there's repercussions involved.
Have you seen my pakistani community? this happens all the time. They're the only people we're allowed to be around so its not too hard to fall in love
Have you seen my pakistani community? this happens all the time. They're the only people we're allowed to be around so its not too hard to fall in love
Yeah I get culture and religion but when you live in a certain country you still need to abide by the laws. I understand that the UKs law is that it's incest!
Most important thing is not to be ashamed of who you are, millions of people feel the same way and you aren't alone. Although for your specific situation coming out is probably not gonna be best for you or your safety. There are many forums on the internet where you can discuss these issues with people similar to you thought!
Also, have you ever considered because of your upbringing, you might just be gay but you may be ashamed of this and so it may seem more simple if you were the opposite sex. I don't know much about your full situation and so I don't claim to know what your going through. I don't have an issue with anyone being gay or transgender if that's who you are but I just worry that maybe you need to speak to someone if you want to marry your cousin (who you feel is like your sister) as this is incest.
Transgender is haram. Your cousin sister should not marry this individual if she considers herself to be a Muslim. This is absolutely not allowed in Islam. The fact that one would be so demented to think something like this makes me ill.
And I feel ill reading that someone is so close-minded and intolerant.
So you're a male in a female's body and you're in love with your cousin?
This is some weird sh*t, not gonna lie.
Who have you spoken to about this?
I know thats it wrong. In my mind i keep telling myself to try and become "normal" but i cant control the way i feel. And my cousin is the only one who gets me and i feel comfortable with. Shes the only one who knows