There is a guy who has tried to get me into bed/to be FWB for pretty much one year now. It happened a few times in the first couple of months of knowing each other, but then I developed feelings and wanted things to go further whereas he didn't. It's been the same since I've known him, but the pattern is always the same, we'll stop talking for a little, then we'll start again, and then he will flirt with me and pay me compliments about my body; nice boobs, nice ass etc. and then he'll try to get sexual and talk dirty, then I'll just end up getting a bit upset knowing he's interested in nothing more than sex, then he'll apologise and stop, and then 2 months later it begins again.
He lives abroad now so we haven't even seen each other for months. I know I need to stop talking to him for good; he claims he wants a relationship with nobody, but I just don't want to be there for his entertainment just until something better comes along. I really like him a lot and I want to be more than FWB. He's told me several times that I'm just a good friend and that he doesn't have feelings, just that he 'fancies me', so I don't know why he keeps trying to get sex out of me; I'm sure he could find someone over there to sleep with...