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How would you feel if an ex wanted a booty call?

Now... Let's say you broke up on good terms. Mostly factors external to the actual relationship between you.

You choose not to speak after doing so to make it easier to get over one another.

A year later your ex messages you basically asking if you wanna spend a day with him in a city halfway between you both, get updated on each other's lives and then go back to a hotel and **** all night and all morning.

Would you actually be open to considering that? Does it actually sound good? Or is it just totally not somewhere you'd go.

P.S perhaps this description of events is unfairly being called 'booty call' in my title.

But the principle is the same - you meet for a night of sex mostly. Then you don't meet again for ages. Although I guess the meeting for sex is a nice way to facilitate getting to know one another. And that lets you recount memories before ravaging one another in bed.

Erm, perhaps this is a dangerous path to tread...
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I'd kick his ass.
Not at all, I'd like to think since we split up and no longer talk, we aren't to be involved with each other ever again.
Would probably ignore them.
I'd be game for it if I didn't have to spend time talking with her afterwards.
I don't have a frosty relationship with any of my exes and I don't have any feelings for any of them anymore, so personally I'd be totally up for it. If there's any chance of bringing back up old emotions and stuff though then it's best not to take a step backwards in such a sense.
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Original post by l'etranger
This is so autistic, it is like you have no self awareness.


I'd be game for it if I didn't have to spend time talking with her afterwards.


LOL. No, I definitely do. Basically my relationship to them is like Woody describes. What I am concerned about however is whether or not girls typically tend to feel that way. I suspect they do far less often than males.

Original post by WoodyMKC
I don't have a frosty relationship with any of my exes and I don't have any feelings for any of them anymore, so personally I'd be totally up for it. If there's any chance of bringing back up old emotions and stuff though then it's best not to take a step backwards in such a sense.


Thoughts on the likelihood of the above?
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I'd be game for it if I didn't have to spend time talking with her afterwards.


That's the intention bruv. Do it again 5years later when you both happen to be single and going tough times. Or maybe just give it 10years when you are both 30...

The sex was the best I ever had man. Pretty sure it was for her to haha.
Original post by TorpidPhil
LOL. No, I definitely do. Basically my relationship to them is like Woody describes. What I am concerned about however is whether or not girls typically tend to feel that way. I suspect they do far less often than males.



Thoughts on the likelihood of the above?


Must admit I've never had an ex contact me out of the blue and ask if I wanted to meet up and shag :lol: I've been in contact with a couple via Facebook a while ago though and it lead to a hookup but there was a lot of catching up with FB first.
Hell no
Original post by WoodyMKC
Must admit I've never had an ex contact me out of the blue and ask if I wanted to meet up and shag :lol: I've been in contact with a couple via Facebook a while ago though and it lead to a hookup but there was a lot of catching up with FB first.


Hehe, now that would be a rather special woman if she did xD

**** it, I'm gonna contact her.

Do a little small talk catch up and then see where it goes.

Will keep you updated. Hopefully don't just get ignored rofl.
oh if she put a paper bag over her had and put a sock in her mouth.
AND let me do whatever I wanted to her. all night.
...and film it.
Original post by sleepysnooze
oh if she put a paper bag over her had and put a sock in her mouth.
AND let me do whatever I wanted to her. all night.
...and film it.


All your exes were that bad...?
Original post by Black Cat
Would probably ignore them.


Original post by Rhythmical
Not at all, I'd like to think since we split up and no longer talk, we aren't to be involved with each other ever again.


Original post by MrsSheldonCooper
I'd kick his ass.


Isn't it interesting how differently males and females respond to this?

Females - **** this lame ass *****.

Males - Wow. I'm winning.

Black Cat stop breaking the stereotype haha. I'm guessing the reason you would ignore them is because your relationship with them now isn't so good?

Original post by saraxh
Hell no
Original post by TorpidPhil
Isn't it interesting how differently males and females respond to this?

Females - **** this lame ass *****.

Males - Wow. I'm winning.

Black Cat stop breaking the stereotype haha. I'm guessing the reason you would ignore them is because your relationship with them now isn't so good?


Considering how bitter he was on tsr after we broke up, nope not really :tongue:
Original post by TorpidPhil
All your exes were that bad...?


nahhh
I'm probably just terrible
Depends which one.
Original post by sleepysnooze
oh if she put a paper bag over her had and put a sock in her mouth.
AND let me do whatever I wanted to her. all night.
...and film it.


jeez thats a bit extreme don't you think? Isn't that basically revenge porn??
Original post by retro_turtles
jeez thats a bit extreme don't you think? Isn't that basically revenge porn??


That was what he was implying, yes. Can't have been a good relationship 0_0

Original post by MrsSheldonCooper
Considering how bitter he was on tsr after we broke up, nope not really :tongue:


Well the question was meant to only apply if you had a decent breakup haha.

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