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How would you feel if an ex wanted a booty call?

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Reply 20

sleepysnooze

Original post by retro_turtles

Isn't that basically revenge porn??

yeah
but you wouldn't know it was her
with the paper bag over her head, and the sock (etc) in her mouth.

Reply 21

retro_turtles

Original post by TorpidPhil

That was what he was implying, yes. Can't have been a good relationship 0_0

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Reply 22

MrsSheldonCooper

Original post by TorpidPhil

That was what he was implying, yes. Can't have been a good relationship 0_0

Well the question was meant to only apply if you had a decent breakup haha.

Oh well nope I don't think so. Oxytocin works too well with me sadly :frown:

Reply 23

It's****ingWOODY

Original post by TorpidPhil

Hehe, now that would be a rather special woman if she did xD

**** it, I'm gonna contact her.

Do a little small talk catch up and then see where it goes.

Will keep you updated. Hopefully don't just get ignored rofl.

Routing for you mate :biggrin:

Reply 24

username2705335

Original post by TorpidPhil

Isn't it interesting how differently males and females respond to this?

Females - **** this lame ass *****.

Males - Wow. I'm winning.

Black Cat stop breaking the stereotype haha. I'm guessing the reason you would ignore them is because your relationship with them now isn't so good?

Yeah, they said some really bad things to my friends. He actually said hi after we broke up but I blocked him. :rofl:

Reply 25

ByronicHero

If I was over it and had nothing better to do then sure :dontknow:

Reply 26

If the sex was good with that ex yes. I have nothing to lose.

Reply 27

CleverSquirrel

id punch him in the face and throw him out of a window :h:

he's an Ex for a reason :colonhash:

Reply 28

TorpidPhil

Original post by EC

If the sex was good with that ex yes. I have nothing to lose.

Original post by CleverSquirrel

id punch him in the face and throw him out of a window :h:

he's an Ex for a reason :colonhash:

Erm. You don't break up with people because you want to sometimes you know. sometimes the world just has an uncanny of way of forcing it. Abusive family, parents or friends not allowing it. Needing to move away for careers. Ill health getting in the way... All sorts of thigns can cause a relationship to end 'prematurely'.

Or perhaps you just stopped loving one another and grew rather apathetic so there was no reason to not just stay as platonic friends and go off and have sex with other people.

Reply 29

CleverSquirrel

Original post by TorpidPhil

The world actually needs more girls like you.

It blows my mind that you are only 18. You are very emotionally mature for that age.

Real talk, what experiences have you had to be so emotionally mature for your age? Or is your age a lie lol.

Erm. You don't break up with people because you want to sometimes you know. sometimes the world just has an uncanny of way of forcing it. Abusive family, parents or friends not allowing it. Needing to move away for careers. Ill health getting in the way... All sorts of thigns can cause a relationship to end 'prematurely'.

Or perhaps you just stopped loving one another and grew rather apathetic so there was no reason to not just stay as platonic friends and go off and have sex with other people.

though you are very very right! and i agree with everything you've said

.....my first BF....my ex cheated on me...with my best friend..... :cry2:

since then im a single pringle :/

Reply 30

TorpidPhil

Original post by ByronicHero

If I was over it and had nothing better to do then sure :dontknow:

Original post by saraxh

Yeah, they said some really bad things to my friends. He actually said hi after we broke up but I blocked him. :rofl:

If a partner cannot befriend your friends. Well, either they are **** or your friends are...

Reply 31

ByronicHero

Original post by TorpidPhil

If a partner cannot befriend your friends. Well, either they are **** or your friends are...

Surely that's how we make most of our leisure time decisions? :lol:

Reply 32

Dirtybit

@SA-1 @zKlown

Thoughts?

What do you think of the catfishes in this thread?

Reply 33

TorpidPhil

Original post by ByronicHero

Surely that's how we make most of our leisure time decisions? :lol:

Gotta be efficient, rational human beings! Always consider the opportunity costs!

Reply 34

username2705335

Original post by TorpidPhil

If a partner cannot befriend your friends. Well, either they are **** or your friends are...

He was a ***** & fboy that pretended to be kind. :colonhash:

My friends are really nice.

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Reply 35

TorpidPhil

Original post by saraxh

He was a ***** & fboy that pretended to be kind. :colonhash:

My friends are really nice.

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The fact that they helped you come to the realisation that he was such (even if it was only indirectly by causing him to lash out at them) is a testament to them being a fairly decent set of friends. Keep 'em close and actively work on bolstering the friendship. Good friendships are really rare these days; people are so selfish. A good friend should be treat like family.

Reply 36

ByronicHero

Original post by TorpidPhil

Gotta be efficient, rational human beings! Always consider the opportunity costs!

Haha, it's not that exactly. If you have any other interesting plans you are going to typically choose those over travelling to some random city to have sex with someone you've already had sex with hundreds of times. Unless you are still into them, in which case you'll go.

(edited 7 years ago)

Reply 37

TorpidPhil

Original post by CleverSquirrel

though you are very very right! and i agree with everything you've said

.....my first BF....my ex cheated on me...with my best friend..... :cry2:

since then im a single pringle :/

I'm very sorry to hear that. Cheating is a foul thing done by the mentally immature (who have no sense of empathy or morals) or the actively immoral. It shouldn't ever be tolerated. Blows my mind that some people forgive a cheat. It makes no sense to cheat at all! Just end the relationship and go get your nookie elsewhere. What's so difficult about that?

You seem like a very sweet girl with only good intentions and a lot of character so I'm sure you will find someone with ease if you want to!

Reply 38

hezzlington

my ex wants to. she's amazing in bed. it's so toxic....but..aren't all the best things in life bad for you?

Reply 39

Original post by TorpidPhil

Omg do people on TSR really like to assume that people lie all the time? Lmao.

I'll be 19 in a few months if that helps. I just had to deal with a lot of drama in my relationships and I also met more bad people than good ones so that was really beneficial to my strength. I've been left mostly alone all the time since my parents aren't at home that much so I had to grow up faster and basically rely on strangers at times. And I've always been sexually open minded with my partners.