why is it in poor taste? I'm trying to educate you on why you don't have friends
nah
I don't need you to 'educate' me. There are actual autistic people on this forum and those are the people who will be offended by your posts, not me. People who haven't done you any harm but have a genuine learning difficulty. But as long as you get in a cheap insult which makes you feel better about your miserable existence, I suppose it's worth it.
Nah but on real terms, if some guy asked you if a book was interesting maybe he's trying to spark conversation or potential make a friend, ever heard of those, friends? Then again your a Sherlock fan and he doesn't have friends ergo you therefore don't.
If it was the otherway around if a guy posted 'got creeped on by a girl' the replies would be such *******s and a lot less than you're getting.
what kind of logic is that? anyone else posting about a similar experience would get a lot less crap than I do. I don't know what it is, people genuinely hate me on here.
I don't need you to 'educate' me. There are actual autistic people on this forum and those are the people who will be offended by your posts, not me. People who haven't done you any harm but have a genuine learning difficulty. But as long as you get in a cheap insult which makes you feel better about your miserable existence, I suppose it's worth it.
yeah, but you *are* autistic though you are a 20 something year old virgin without any friends
Again, don't flatter yourself. No man finds short and fat girls attractive, in the same way that they don't find hippos and walruses attractive. You are invisible. If you weren't reading Harry Potter, then you may as well have been a wisp of air, because he would have walked right past you.
that's BS and you know it. Men on here themselves admit it. If a man is desperate enough and frustrated enough, he will approach anyone regardless of looks. I've seen guys on here constantly moaning about how easy it is for girls to get approached, how women always have the upper hand. So what you've said contradicts many, many posts.
why do you hate me so much though? what have I done to you personally that makes you want to hurt me by criticizing the way I look?
keep telling yourself that if it makes you feel better.
speaking of "repetitive", another user only recently told you "keep telling yourself that if it helps you sleep at night" - can you not come up with an original comeback?
speaking of "repetitive", another user only recently told you "keep telling yourself that if it helps you sleep at night" - can you not come up with an original comeback?
Yes he made me uncomfortable, thats what IVe been saying from the beginning, nothing more nothing less. what part of wanting to be left alone don't you understand? If it was a woman I probably would have been annoyed but I wouldn't have thought they had an ulterior motive. I can't even understand your last sentence, Ive never been to Manchester met, I'm assuming its a university and students who go there might be offended by what youve said.
Exactly, proves my point, ridiculous to prejudge men, you're acting like a lonely little school girl trying to get attention, grow up you swine...
So I went to the library today just to pass the time and I was sitting there reading, minding my own business when this dodgy looking man comes up to me and asks if i know what time the library closes. I thought he genuinely wanted to know so I told him it closes at eight. But then he asks me if the book im reading is any good (Harry potter and the cursed child). Not wishing to engage in further conversation, i tell him yes and return to by book. Then he asks if the other harry potter books are good, and I say yes they are, trying to make myself quite clear that I wish to be alone, at which point he goes away. I'm just surprised and slightly disturbed at the desperate measures guys will resort to with complete strangers just to get the attention of someone from the opposite sex. I'm not even remotely attractive, and if this happens again I intend to make myself quite clear and say that I just wish to read my book in peace. It was just a bit pathetic and creepy really and it ruined my inner peace just a little bit. Not a lot, just a bit. I shouldnt have to endure that. And in a library too, of all places.
Girl, I know what it's like to be annoyed and followed around by a guy who can't take a hint and it does make me a bit paranoid when stopped by a random guy in a public area but I think that you are overreacting. I hate to say it because a lot of times girls have been told that they are overreacting in situations where they really aren't, but you can't be sure what his intentions were. Yes, it's annoying to have someone bother you when you're trying to read in peace, but he did go away after you were short with him. The desperate, creepy ones demand that you talk to them, then call you arrogant when you refuse.
But you certainly don't deserve the sexist insults coming from other users here.
Let's get real, there was only one issue here, and it wasn't anything to do with the library.
You didn't fancy the dude; ergo he's creepy and desperate.
If it had been Benedict coming up to you in the library, presumably it would be a whirlwind of romance, and just the thing you'd expect from a sensitive, intellectual man- rather than the tacky experience of a horrid club or bar.
Girl, I know what it's like to be annoyed and followed around by a guy who can't take a hint and it does make me a bit paranoid when stopped by a random guy in a public area but I think that you are overreacting. I hate to say it because a lot of times girls have been told that they are overreacting in situations where they really aren't, but you can't be sure what his intentions were. Yes, it's annoying to have someone bother you when you're trying to read in peace, but he did go away after you were short with him. The desperate, creepy ones demand that you talk to them, then call you arrogant when you refuse.
But you certainly don't deserve the sexist insults coming from other users here.
I think any girl would be slightly paranoid when approached by a stranger in a public area (unless they are actually on the pull) and it's not my fault or the fault of any other women that society is built in that way. I don't think I overreacted in my initial post, its the other people on here that have blown int out of proportion.
that's BS and you know it. Men on here themselves admit it. If a man is desperate enough and frustrated enough, he will approach anyone regardless of looks. I've seen guys on here constantly moaning about how easy it is for girls to get approached, how women always have the upper hand. So what you've said contradicts many, many posts.
why do you hate me so much though? what have I done to you personally that makes you want to hurt me by criticizing the way I look?
There are always exceptions to a rule. A small number of men have such low standards that they would bang anything with a pulse. Most men have standards though, and would find a lot more pleasure in choking the chicken, instead of banging a fatty.
I don't hate you, I don't know who you are (thankfully), but I had to call you out on your delusions.
Let's get real, there was only one issue here, and it wasn't anything to do with the library.
You didn't fancy the dude; ergo he's creepy and desperate.
If it had been Benedict coming up to you in the library, presumably it would be a whirlwind of romance, and just the thing you'd expect from a sensitive, intellectual man- rather than the tacky experience of a horrid club or bar.
uhh doesn't the same apply to men too though?
when its a fat/ugly woman its harassment when its a hot woman, its welcomed