Definitely too rude, I don't want to ask my guests for anything - even gifts. Where do they put the gifts? Do they have to hold them for the whole ceremony then leave them at the reception? Then where do -you- put them all? How do you even get them home? We live in London, we can't afford more than one room and we don't have a car.
How do they even get from one venue to the other? I'm thinking I'll get a coach for everyone but I have no idea.
I've never been to a wedding, my closest friends have never been to one. My parents' wedding they had relatives with a house where the reception could be held and my grandmother cooked.
I plan to have the bar open up to a certain spend, or a certain number of drinks for each person and then if they want more they can buy. It's been a nightmare trying to find a venue that doesn't cost the Earth and can accommodate the people I want to bring. I wanted to pay for everything myself (partner earns less than me, family is quite poor), but I might have to let my parents contribute. Especially since due to ill health my hours have been cut recently (I'm not salaried - but I've managed to save quite an impressive amount). Definitely won't be getting into any debt, or asking guests. Maybe they'll give us cards with money in them, that would be nice. Many of them are much wealthier than us. I wouldn't ask for that either though. Might have to mention we don't want gifts?
Not offering quite a few people plus ones, thanks to one of your other threads! I didn't realise you could do that, I thought maybe you had to let everyone! A wedding half filled with strangers does sound bad though!
I don't know anything about weddings.