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How bad is it to call a guy "adorable"?

Is it finished for me? do other girls use that term for guys they like?

She said she wants to play with my hair because she says I look "adorable". I'm aggressively flirting with her but she apparently thinks it's funny? Wth do I do?

Reply 1

UWS

Most of the time I feel that it is used by someone who thinks you're a puppy and thinks you're adorable in that way. I don't think it's something most guys would like to be associated with, but not every girl uses that word in that way If she's just shrugging off your advances and saying that, it might not be the best of signs but maybe just be straight up and ask her on a date.

Reply 2

bones-mccoy

I mean it's definitely a positive thing but most guys would see it as emasculating

Reply 3

Shann998

Some guys like being called that, its nothing bad its just the way some girls choose to show their affection to their boyfriend. You shouldnt take it so personally or read too much into it, its just her way of showing love. I think this could be a positive response to your flirting.

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Reply 4

uberteknik

When the opportunity arises and if she wants to play with your hair again, respond with: 'if you think that's adorable wait till you check this out' and then stroke the bulge in your pants.

Spoiler

Reply 5

username1292215

Don't be so insecure who cares if she said adorable its just one word and maybe shes to shy to call you the other words.

Reply 6

3121

Being adorable can be attractive to girls if you play on it right, although if you're just looking for sex it's the end of the road...

Reply 7

999tigger

Original post by Anonymous

If I'm being honest if she has also called you cute, cuddly or patted you on the head then it sounds like doom. I like the phrase aggressively flirting it now makes you sound as though you are dry humping her leg.